For a long time, I really truly thought that it was loving of me to be around those who drained me, made me feel as though I had to be on eggshells all the time, those who wanted me to be something other than myself.
How silly that was.
I owe no one my time or my energy, regardless of how sacred our relationship is supposed to be.
And neither do you.
It took me quite a few years to see just how much this concept was holding me back from living out the calling and vision i had for my life.
Of course, I cannot blame anyone else for my life or even my feelings.
And this is not about accusing anyone of anything because ultimately, I put myself in these situations.
It is one thing to be a child and feel like you have no choice who you have to be around but the moment, you become an adult, your time, your energy are yours to manage.
And if you choose to give them away to those who do not appreciate them or to those who make you feel bad about yourself then it is on you to correct the situation, no matter how scary it may seem to stand yoru ground.
If only you can see just how important it is that you manage yoru energy, then you would not tolerate the nonsense for even one second longer.
The problem, my love, is that you think that these people are your only source of love.
You also want to look good to other people looking at the situation and so again, you think these other random people are your source for approval and accolades.
And so, you sell your soul for conditional love and false praise.
I hope it is worth it.
I guess it is not.
Would you like to take yourself back?
LEan into the Divine within and realise that everything you need is found within you.
Then stop, stop, STOP trying to make other be your source of love, praise, or whatever it is you think you need from them.
YOU DO NOT NEED TO BE AROUND ANYONE WHO MAKES YOU FEEL BAD!
So stop it.
You do not have to resolve every conflict, you can just walk away.
Everyone will not understand you so ‘NO’ can be a complete sentence, without explanation.
And no, you do not have to feel guilty about choosing peace over drama, though many will try to tell you that the spiritual way is to keep whacking your head against a brick wall of crazy relational drama.
Again, YOU DO NOT OWE ANYONE YOUR TIME OR ENERGY.
These are your most valuable resources.
CARE FOR YOURSELF, my love.
I invite you to work with me in WIN THE WAR WITHIN.
4 weeks to self-mastery.
4 weeks to master the deliberate life design process.
Surely it is time to design and create a life you adore.
Doors close in a few days.
Much Amazing Love