Admit it. You don’t want to be limited by the same rules as everyone else. You feel you have to because it is all you have ever known but really, you think people around you are kinda weird. They, of course, KNOW that you are the weird one because despite all your attempts to fit in and be like them. You are not, you have never been.
It just seems a little weird and crazy to you that people act the way they do but for a long time now, you have learnt to fit in and act like them and just go along with the status-quo because you want their love and you want to avoid their disdain.
But you and I are the same – We don’t want to fit within the lines that others want us to fit into.
I have been accused of living in a bubble of my own making, of always needing to be different from everyone else…
But the truth is, I have not even thought that that is what I am doing. I am simply being me and I am different.
You are different too.
We live in this other plain that most people just do not get. They think we are deluded and maybe we are by their standards but we don’t care about their standards – Well I don’t any longer. It was a hard-won battle but I decided to be done and now I am.
I live in a different dimension where I go along with whatever Spirit says to me because I want it all and I finally see that He wants me to have it all. The rules, the lines that others draw for me are just too stifling and I am out of that limiting, silly game. And I watch people trying to live within the constraints of that game and it kills all life in them but they keep doing it anyway.
To me, THAT IS WEIRD!
Why would you keep obeying rules that are not serving you?
I know why – It is because the alternative seems too hard, too unusual and maybe Spirit won’t like you there and definitely, you might get hurt there because norms always lash out at what they don’t like.
I get it.
Where I live right now, is not easy…
NOT EASY AT ALL!
I always knew it would not be easy…
And so, for years and years and YEARS, I tried to fit (unsuccessfully) within the lines because I desperately wanted approval, I wanted to hedge my bets in case this different dimension I live in, did not pan out so then I could fit back into norm life without having to apologize.
That just makes everything take too long.
Be in or be out!
That is the rapid way! I finally choose to be, all the way, out of the lines…
You just drag out the pain when you try to hold onto both worlds…
I see it in my clients…
I see it in myself…
The need to belong and be like others around us, even though if completely honest, we think they are somewhat beneath us. We know they cannot bear the load we bear. We know we have to water things down for them so that they cope. And in fact, if we ever try to make them understand or support us, we end up feeling resentful because they just cannot give us what we need and honey, if you want peace in your life, find someone external to confide in, someone unattached like me, who gets it. Do not try to force the people around you to understand or support you! IT WILL NEVER HAPPEN!
(I know it sounds arrogant but you know it is already what you feel but you would not have the courage to state it so bluntly – not in public anyway!)
MAN, this is hard to write…
I have started and stopped and deleted and changed it so many times and yet, It must be said.
You long to be free of the lines that others live to…
And yet, you so desperately want their love and approval…
You cannot have both – at least not at the start…
You have to choose one or the other…
FREEDOM to go after everything you want, trusting that you will always have ALL THAT YOU WANT when you play full out…
Or
BONDAGE to rules and traditions that you do not align with – An ok life by most people’s standards but nowhere near the magic that can happen when you are truly you!
You long to be Spirit-led but you cannot be while you strive to fit in…
Spirit is like the wind – free-flowing wherever He will and scarily, He can lead you even to break the rules and traditions of your religious organisation – Are you willing?
What of breaking the rules of what a relationship looks like?
What of breaking the rules of what parenting looks like?
What of breaking the rules of being a good child / friend?
What of breaking the rules of building a spirit-led business?
So many man-made rules will be broken when you are truly allowing yourself the freedom to be Spirit-led and to go fully after everything you desire…
Are you up to dealing with the fallout?
It takes courage to be us…
It takes CRAZY, WEIRD (to the regular people) courage to actually live by inspired guidance and act on what bubbles up inside and then to live outside the lines and be the leader you know you are born to be!
WILL YOU DO IT?
If so, you need to work with me…
Not because you are weak and in need of help but because you are strong and need a confidant, someone who will push you WAY BEYOND what you think you can do!
You want that magical life where everything works out for you!
then you cannot be only surrounded by norm thinking and norm action…
YOU HAVE TO CHOOSE TO BE CHALLENGED!
Will you?!
Book your 90 minutes UNLOCK PROSPERITY session right now if this resonates with you at RosemaryNonnyKnight.com/privatecoaching
Working with me is not for the faint of heart or those who pretend to want it all and honey, there are many of those…
This journey is not for wimps!
But if you want to get to the end of your life and KNOW that you did all you were here to do!
If you want to experience more impact, wealth than most people will even be able to dream of…
Then get in touch now.
Much Amazing Love
