I come from a background where it is normal to butt your head into other people’s concerns and try to take on the burden as your own…
I considered myself some kinda of saviour of the world for a long time…
I would take it so personally when people made life choices that took them down a path to a self-created hell…
I would seek to preach at them… REPEATEDLY… which made them run from me and my self-righteous ways…
I would seek to carry the burden for them… which weakened them
I would try to force them to do it all my way… which annoyed them…
And then I would get so frustrated with them…
WHY COULD THEY NOT SEE THAT MY WAY WAS BEST?
I mean, seriously!!!!!
Could they not see that I wanted to help them?
Could they not see my wisdom?
I was heavily burdened by this need to save everyone…
I felt it was my way of loving them…
I am not sure how loved they felt!
I see you, honey…
Taking on responsibilities that are not yours to take on…
Maybe it is your adult child you feel fully responsible for…
Maybe it is a sibling
Maybe it is a parent
Maybe it is a client, a colleague, a friend, a partner…
Whoever it is…
You feel responsible for their life choices…
You try to get them to do things your way
You try to do everything for them
You feel hurt that they cannot see that you are trying to help…
And you keep taking it all on.
And getting really stressed about it.
If they asked for your advice then you get the privilege of telling them what you think… ONCE!
But you must leave them alone!
You cannot carry the weight of their choices…
You cannot save everyone!
And it does not help them for you to try!
Concern yourself with living out your calling, creating your vision…
And leave them to make their own choices.
Release them from your heart
Not in an unloving way
But give them FREEDOM
and GIVE THAT TO YOURSELF TOO!
You cannot control anyone so please stop trying.
BE LOVE without being needy.
The thing I realise about my more controlling ways of the past was that I wanted to be needed…
I wanted the accolade of them listening to me, them doing what I told them to do…
I wanted them to affirm me by doing what I said
It was all about me
It was not loving
It was really needy.
And maybe, you are not yet ready to admit that your desire to carry the weight of the world is not completely selfless…
But honey, you keep yourself stuck while you continue to try to change everyone.
You are only truly responsible for yourself.
So leave them alone
Live your life.
Ask the Divine/your intuition for guidance on when to offer assistance…
Mostly get on and live your own life!
It is not all your responsibility!
- Your vision is your permission.
- You are capable of your calling.
- You are much more powerful than you realise.
- Yes you can get everything you want.
- You are loved. You are enough. You are worthy. You deserve the very best of everything.
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