Self Development

The Surprising Truth About Why You Haven’t Reached Your Goals

Right now, from this vantage point, your vision could come to pass…

Or it could not.

Your future could be better than you could ever imagine…

Or it could be worse or more of the same…

The thing that makes the difference… is YOUR FOCUS.

YOU make all the difference.

What you choose to give your attention to…

Your fear, worry, doubts, the worst-case scenario

Or…

Your hope, your joy, your faith, the best-case scenario

For whatever reason, most humans have formed the habit of expecting the worst. Thankfully, it hardly ever happens as badly as they worry it will — though I imagine for some people, maybe the worst does happen… maybe.

However, the chances are that YOU, reading this, the worst has never happened to you — and yet, still you keep expecting it. You would probably say it is because you imagine the worst and take action to prevent it, that is why it has not happened yet. And maybe that is true…

Except… getting away from the worst is NOT the same as achieving your actual goals and getting the BEST.

And so you are getting exactly what you focus on — avoiding the worst-case scenario. But is that actually all you want?

Again, your true vision is as likely to happen as it is unlikely to happen…

It is currently an equal probability — and the deciding factor is YOU.

So what will you focus on?

What will you choose to create or avoid?

I suggest you give all your energy to creating the best and not just avoiding the worst…

But hey, you can keep telling yourself that you have no choice over how you think…

And you can keep telling yourself about how your way of getting away from bad things is a system of thought propagated by all the psychologists in the world, and how it is a valid viewpoint, and how you have no choice in the matter, and quote this study and that study that shows that some people think in a “get away from” way and others think in a “go towards” way… And yes, you are absolutely right…

BUT IS IT GETTING YOU WHAT YOU WANT?

Because that is literally the only thing that matters.

And I guess I would ask you — do you want to be right and dissatisfied or would you prefer to be fulfilled and happy?

Ultimately, you have chosen to focus on getting away from the worst-case scenario, and it may seem logical and sensible and common sense. But AGAIN, I need you to see that the worst-case scenario is currently as probable as the best-case scenario.

Neither of them exists yet in the physical reality — so YOU are choosing where to focus.

And because you are powerful, your behaviour will follow that focus. Every cell in your body will seek to give you what you are focusing on, what you are telling yourself that you want…

And therefore, YOU WILL GET IT.

For example, you say you want the best-case scenario of MORE INCOME, but then you focus on the worst-case scenario of losing your current job and income, and your family suffering because now there is no money, and how scary that would be, etc.

Then you manifest the result of NOT losing your current job or income, but you cannot seem to manifest the best-case scenario of more income (which is what you actually want).

Well, my love, if you would look very deliberately at your behaviours, you will notice that you did everything you needed to do to avoid the worst-case scenario — whereas you paid more lip service than anything else to taking actions that would result in MORE INCOME.

And if you are very unaware, you will tell yourself that you have tried everything to make more money, but nothing works, and the economy is bad, and there are no better-paying jobs, and all the better jobs want qualifications that you do not have, and hey, you are aging out of the marketplace anyway so you better be grateful for what you do have, etc.

All the while you are not doing simple, obvious things like:

  • Asking for more money persistently from your current employers.

  • Going after other, better-paying jobs and attending interviews until you get what you want.

  • Starting your own consultancy.

  • Becoming more known in your industry with content creation so that you are seen as an expert of the highest calibre and headhunted for higher-paying roles.

Or any number of actions that would become obvious to you when you change your focus from avoiding the worst to creating the best.

Do you begin to see what I mean?

Anyway, the choice, of course, is yours.

But I will end by reminding you that your true vision is as likely to come to life as your worst fear — it all depends on what you choose to focus on.

And I will also invite you to a higher level of thinking, a more deliberate way of living…


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Remember — you CHOSE to think about worst-case scenarios until it became your norm. You can also CHOOSE to think about best-case scenarios until they become your norm.

YOU HAVE ALL THE CHOICES
YOU ARE THE AUTHORITY IN YOUR LIFE

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