The Plight of The Overachiever: Do you still know what you want?

By August 9, 2015May 16th, 2020Self Development

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Do you simply want it all? And for whatever reason, you find that you are not getting it all?

You want the business to work…

You want to be the best parent and partner on the planet…

You want to travel and see more of the world but you feel tied down by all these responsibilities…

You want SO MUCH but you just cannot seem to stay on course long enough to get it.

There are so many distractions…

There are so many other things to do and frankly, you are not completely sure that you are allowed to want all this stuff.

Isn’t it selfish?

Isn’t it evil to want it all?

Will God hate me? Aaargh!

And you are not even that clear about what you want? When you really look at it, you wonder if you know what you want. There is so much confusion and overwhelm inside of you and all you want is respite, normalcy ( What does that even mean? ), PEACE!

That is what you want.

Peace and an internal sense that you are going somewhere worthwhile and that you are on track and that all you dream about will come to you.

You do want it all and you keep feeling you must tie it all down in reality. You want to come across as someone to take serious. You want people to see that you are a force to be reckoned with and still deep inside, there is deadness, a sense that you are not on path.

And surely, surely, it is time to really face that.

Your business and life depends on it.

You are not going anywhere fast because you do not know where to go and I mean this both in terms of business strategy and also, just that inner knowing of your purpose.

You have lived so long, trying to fulfill the desire and wishes of your family, your religion, your friends, colleagues, everyone and now…

Now, you do not even know YOU anymore.

What do you enjoy?

What makes you happy?

What are you supposed to be doing with your life?

And you are tempted to spend a whole lot of time getting clear, thinking, wondering, planning, organizing, de-cluttering because then surely, you will KNOW what to do but you have done that before and it does not work.

You are still uncertain, unclear, wondering – You know you want it all and that does include doing your own thing and making lots of money and making a difference to others but how?

And anyway, there is no time to spend in figuring this stuff out, you just have to keep moving – There are people to please, things to do and life is ticking away while you think through this stuff.

You jump from learning to learning, hoping to find the secret – the magic button to give you the success you want in your business…

You read the books, you get inspired for a second but then life continues and you wonder if any of it even applies to your life.

It seems to work for them but not for you.

Man, it was supposed to be so clear by now!

You were supposed to know what you wanted, you were even supposed to have it all by now and yet, you are still as confused as you were in your teens and twenties but you now have a better facade to put on it and people even think you are doing okay now.

But you know…

You know the searching, the wondering, the waiting inside…

The deadness…

The flashes of red hot anger that is quickly PUSHED DOWN…

And honey, it is time for a wake up call…

Stop playing at life…

Stop jumping from one thing to the other…

Stop doubting yourself!

You are wasting time!

Time that you could have spent creating something awe-inspiring – All you have done is create something good but mediocre.

And you know there is more…

There is so much more to you and yet, you keep trying to get to ‘THERE’ doing all the same things that got you to here. Really, come on! I know you know better than that.

You are feeling dead inside because you are created for so much more than this – YES, I know that this is not all that bad. In fact to most people, ‘here’ is pretty darned good but it is not enough for you.

You are a warrior, pushing through the nonsense.

You want to be the best and why on earth then do you keep settling for being okay?

Excuses, excuses and more excuses are not going to get you anywhere, you have to step up your game. You have to stop hiding your abilities because you are worried that those around you will judge you for doing, being and having more than they do.

So what if people think nonsense about you?

Stop filtering yourself and start living!

I almost don’t know what I am saying here except, I know that if I am speaking to you then you hear me and everyone else can just go away.

I am speaking to you – The one who knows, KNOWS that there is more, so much more to them than they have realized to date and they are ready to step up their game and stop doubting, dithering and wondering and start claiming the life they actually want.

Not this crazy half life.

If any of this sounds like you and you want to move forward and start claiming everything you want then know that there is no magic button but there is a more satisfying way to live life than you are currently experiencing.

You will be a better partner, parent, friend because you will be living YOUR TRUE DESIGN fully…

If something in you reads this and wants to know more then I have 2 options for you.

THE ONE ON ONE APPROACH: Let’s have a fierce conversation about what you are about and what you are not about.

What you want and how to get it.

What you no longer want and how to get rid of that!

The impact you want to have and how you are going to make it happen.

It is time to get clear, to get a plan, to face your crazy demons and to triumph and it all starts with one conversation – one intense and yet deeply empowering conversation like nothing you have done before. I will not hold back, I will tell you the truth about what it will take to get what you want.

And you will leave that conversation with a plan of action and maybe a little dazed with the clarity.

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