Ultimately, everyone is doing the best they can, with the information they are working from.

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It may not seem like it sometimes, but they are.

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And this includes parents.

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Parents who do have the ability to shape lives.

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Parents who usually jump into parenting with no instructions and they suddenly find themselves responsible for a whole other life when they have not completely manage to get their own life together.

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And so sometimes, they make a major mess of things.

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And it is tempting to blame them for everything wrong with your life but that leaves you playing the victim forever.

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And victims do not win.

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There is also the tendency to try and prove them wrong.

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To try hard to NOT be like them.

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To try VERY HARD to NOT please them in any way.

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To try hard to PUNISH them for the things they did wrong.

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All of these plus anything you do that starts with you thinking about your parent and trying to not be like it, be like it, prove something, disprove something or whatever – MEANS YOU ARE NOT FREE.

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I see some people refusing to be wealthy because they might have to give some money to a parent who they despise or who they think only cares for what the adult child can give them.

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Or because their parent was so enamoured with money and appearance and so now, the adult child rebels against all wealth and decides to be almost a hobo to embarrass and be ‘different’ from their parent.

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It is not always conscious, unfortunately.

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So you may read the above and think you are not playing this game with your own awesome life but is that true?

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Most of us in this community have some kind of complaint about our upbringing.

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The question is, how much longer do you want to be a victim of it?

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Because no matter how badly you were parented, your parents were doing the best they could with the nonsense they were living with in their souls each day.

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And so, you can blame them and rebel against them forever but it is only YOU and YOUR OFFSPRING that will suffer for your refusal to take responsibility for your healing.

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I do feel you.

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I know what it is like to feel so angry.

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I also know what it is like to feel like you are over it but still to see the effects of your upbringing showing up repeatedly in your life and then to feel helpless to change things.

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However, you are not helpless.

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It just takes commitment to handle this particular area of life because you are conditioned to love and be loyal to your parents while you also feel this intense dislike for them.

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You wonder why they could not just love you the way you needed to be loved.

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And deep down, you also wonder if that means you are unlovable.

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And you have been trained not to see & to downplay the importance of all these conflicting dramas lying beneath the surface so it takes a lot of self-awareness to even see the link between your lack of prosperity and your resentment towards your parent(s).

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I can help.

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But only if you are done, COMPLETELY DONE with the sad story.

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Some people’s whole identity is tied up to this sad story so if that is you and you are not ready to let go, then I cannot help you.

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To work with me, you need to want to empower other people and to create an income stream from that as I find that healing works better when there is a desired goal in mind.

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Much Amazing Love

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