I am working on a belief at the moment…
“EVERY GOOD THING COMES EASY TO ME”
Why?
Because I am that person who felt like nothing ever came easy to me…
That may surprise you a little because you might read these blogs, or watch my vids or even be in the Deliberate Millionaire Fast Track Club and you might sometimes find yourself thinking that it is easy for me to say the things I say and do the things I do because of whatever reason you have decided that I am somehow different from you…
But it is not my truth…
My belief to date, has been that things tend to come pretty darned hard to me…
I can even prove it…
And for all you perfect people reading this, I don’t need your silly attempts to correct me…
Go live your own life. Stop trying to tell me how to live mine on MY OWN FREAKING BLOG POST when you are too scared to write your own or show up in any way!! You have been warned – I will not hold back my disdain for you if you try to tell me what I already know!
OK, lets carry on…
Let me share parts of my sad story with you to PROVE to you that things do not come easy…
Only parts though…
I don’t want to depress you too much…
I am the girl who gets yanked away from the only people she really knew when she was only 6 and taken to a third world country where armed robbers come killing people left right and centre in her home…
I am the girl whose dad was at the prime of his life and wealthy living was supposed to now begin except, as the story goes, some juju was done that resulted in him breaking his spinal cord in a car accident that we were all in and then life takes a downturn for the worst…
I am the girl whose uncles and older men saw as something of a sex object and tried to make out with her but thankfully never got all that far with it but it still left me feeling unsafe, unprotected and like there was something wrong with me for this to keep happening…
I am the girl who goes bankrupt and depressed…
I am the girl who goes into incredible debt (£100k) even after bankruptcy, investing in herself and following her dreams…
I am also the girl that pays it down but no one can say that is easy, right?!
I am the girl who decides to have what she thinks will be simple plastic surgery in Turkey to increase her boobs (something she has always wanted) and to flatten her tummy and ends up, having to go back to the surgeon about 5 times to get the wounds to seal…
6 months of horridness in the last half of 2016
IT WAS TERRIBLE!
And somehow, I simply kept showing up…
I am the girl who feels pressure from every side at times and no, you would not know it to look at me because guess what?!
I JUST FREAKING KEEP SHOWING UP!
Because I have a dream…
A purpose that goes beyond any of these things that assail me and I could share a heckuva lot more of my ‘life is hard’ story but I hope you get the point…
PROJECT 334K is my why
PROJECT 334K
PROJECT 334K
334000 people worldwide achieving financial independence, living FREE , WEALTHY and ON PURPOSE and making a dent on the planet
And so, yes I woke up this morning to Papa telling me that I had to work on the belief that life was hard as it meant that I was always taking the harder route…
And some things that could have taken me 5 minutes ended up taking me 5 weeks or more because I kept looking for the hard way to do things because I had the belief that NOTHING came easy to me!
And so this morning in my journal, I am writing “EVERY GOOD THING COMES EASY TO ME” over and over and going over all the stuff I mention and seeing the other side of it…
The side where despite all that stuff, I keep freaking showing up…
The side where I am getting stronger and stronger as I handle it all and KEEP FREAKING SHOWING UP…
The side where I have people telling me that everything I touch turns to gold and yet, I don’t ever think that, I simply commit to whatever it is that I want and I show up and do the work…
And so I get the results because I face down my fear EVERY FUCKING DAY and decide that even if it is freaking HARD, I want the result and so I am going for it all!
And so, before I join the ‘lucky’ peeps who truly believe that everything comes easy to them (And yep, it is really simply a belief), I wanted to record this for you, the person who feels like NOTHING EVER seems to work for you…
And tell you to simply choose to keep showing up
Because even if everything does feel so terribly hard for you at the moment, SO WHAT?!
It does not stop you from winning!
It has never stopped me and so you can go after everything you desire AS WELL!
IF YOU CHOOSE TO!
Do you want the result or not?
Because if you do want the big dream, then you freaking show up every single day regardless of how hard you think life is.
I did and I won
You can and you will win…
And of course, you can start now to work on the belief that says that everything comes to you hard because I know that that single belief has made my life so much harder than it needed to be…
For sure, there were certain things that I had no control over…
But I see how I tend to go for the harder path because deep inside, I have allowed that crazy belief to take root and I am done with it, as of today…
You may not realise that it is simply a belief…
But it is.
You may not realise that because you believe that everything is harder for you, it means that you look opportunities for ease right in the eyes and you tell yourself that it must be some kind of a scam and so you go find the harder way that seems more ‘right’ to you…
OR worse, you don’t do anything at all because either you tell yourself that someone is trying to scam you or you think it will be too hard to do and good things do not happen to you and so why bother.
And so you count yourself out.
Or like me, you have an expectation that it will take longer and be harder but then you commit to it anyway…
But you do make it harder than it has to be!
If you are blessed and I KNOW YOU CAN BE if you choose to be, you will work on that belief right now, like I am now finally getting around to…
And you will dig out every instance in your life where you have felt hard done by and you will take it to your higher power and ask for a new way to look at it or a new way to think…
And you will do it for every single time when that belief seemed to be reinforced and you will start to affirm to yourself that ‘EVERYTHING GOOD COMES EASY TO ME’
Money flows easily to me
Good things always come to me easily…
Abundance comes to me easily…
until you truly believe it
Of course, you will keep showing up and doing the external work as well as this internal work…
And one day, honey, you will KNOW that EVERY GOOD THING DOES REALLY COME EASY TO YOU
Just like it does to me 😀
The thing I need you to see as I draw this to a close is that I do ALWAYS get everything I want.
Always.
And honey, I would not swap my life for anything!
Because despite believing a lie, I have created the ‘Because I want to’ lifestyle because…
I fought for it and I deliberately designed it…
And I will continue to fight and deliberately design the vision for everyone I feel called to serve…
Well, those who are willing to get on the narrow path and DECIDE to win – I cant make anyone do anything, can I?
The only thing that will change in the coming days, months, years is that EVERY GOOD THING WILL COME MORE EASY TO ME!
Because I have decided that it will.
Would you like support in choosing that you will too?
MUCH LOVE!
