This morning, my daughter came down in my quiet time…
This is precious time to me…
I do not much like anything or anyone getting in the way of it
But I am a mum… Interruptions are a part of life when someone wants comfort or someone is in pain or someone is just being silly 🙂
And I got to thinking, for about a second, resentful thoughts but I thankfully caught myself and realised I could make it a blog post instead – Ha ha!
Something along the lines of – INTERRUPTIONS HAPPEN. SO WHAT?!
And so here it is…
Everything is still working out for my good…
Everything works out for your good too, if you will choose to see it that way…
Or you can see it as some kind of punishment, some kind of hardship, some reason why you cannot live the life you are born to live…
Some people suffer permanently because they refuse to change their way of looking at the world…
They keep banging their head against a brick wall of their own expectations of how they want things to be, even though it is OBVIOUS to everyone that it is simply never going to be that way…
For instance, I would still be suffering right now, if I had taken the stance that my daughter SHOULD NOT come downstairs and disturb me when she is in pain…
“She SHOULD know better”
And “How on earth am I supposed to live out my calling with all these interruptions?”
And “poor old me, I have no time to be on my own”
and “where is my hubby to come and help out? Is he not the parent too?”
And maybe I would excuse myself from doing anything today because well, I have been interrupted and my daughter needs my attention every second of the day and then well, now I HAVE TO educate them and so I am out of time to do my work and then I get grumpier and grumpier as the day goes by…
I would be irritable with the children all day because I felt hard done by that they were being children and asking for my help and wanting to be around me…
I would feel even more resentful that I have to cook for them and again, my day is being interrupted by other people’s needs…
And maybe, mum’s taxi happens in the evening because the husband cannot do it for whatever reason and that adds on to ALL THE INTERRUPTIONS and I’d be hating the world even more…
Everyone would be avoiding speaking to me because they can see the storm a-brewing inside me and they can feel the victim energy coming from me, ready to bite if they even so much as look at me funny…
And I would get to the end of the day and feel terrible because I had let another day go by when I did not do what I promised myself I would do.
But of course, I will have some great sounding reasons why not – After all, I am a mum and all these people have all these expectations and needs… How could I do the work when all this stuff is happening? I would say…
But deep down, I would know I had let myself down by refusing to change my stance from victim to creator – I no longer have the privilege of self-deception – Ha ha!
The truth is, this never happens to me now…
I always do what I set out to do because it is a habit and I do not allow my ‘reasons’ to get in the way – The vision is too compelling…
I did want to bring this to you because maybe, you are not quite so versed in seeing your own nonsense…
Maybe it is not parenting issues that ‘get in the way’ of you doing the work…
And maybe you are telling yourself that your situation is somehow worse than everyone else’s…
IT IS NOT TRUE!
Interruptions come to us all…
People do things we do not want them to do…
Things get in the way…
Life is not always perfectly lined up…
In fact, it is hardly ever perfectly lined up…
You can choose to feel victimized by it all…
And keep expecting everything to just do what you want it to do in the way that you want it to do it…
And keep putting off happiness until everything is just so…
And you will be choosing to suffer.
Or you can simply slap a smile on your face and let it go all the way in – Raise that vibration.
Get even more determined to carve out the life you desire…
Where necessary, ask for what you want clearly and repeatedly, with no expectation from any specific person to give you what you want…
Do what you have committed to do, regardless of the chaos around you…
Keep your vision fully in front of your eyes and keep moving forward.
Yep, things do not always go to plan – So what?!
You can still deliberately design a life that you adore, despite it all.
IT IS ALWAYS YOUR CHOICE.
You will be happy to note that my daughter is now asleep on the couch in front of me and I finished this post by the time I intended to.
Much Amazing Love
Rosemary
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