People sometimes send me private messages, expecting sympathy from me…
They are looking in the wrong place!
Go anywhere else but not to me because I do not dole out sympathy, I offer change, REAL CHANGE! But…
Most people don’t have what it takes to change their circumstances…
Most people want to waste my time and draw me into their dramas…
Most people want me to feel sorry for them because they think they are helpless to change…
They talk about not being motivated and being unable to focus and being easily distracted…
They ask for prayer on things that they can easily do something about themselves but they are hoping for the magic bullet from the sky…
They ask for my time and sometimes, against my better judgement, I give it and without fail, they do not show up…
And they always have some kind of a good reason for why they did not turn up…
And then I am supposed to understand and let it go like everyone else does for them…
Everyone else in their life says “Hey, no worries, it is okay for you to be mediocre. Stop worrying about it, come shop with me, lets go party, lets chill out together”
And then they meet me and I am blunt!
I call them on their bullshit and they do not like it!
And at this point, they split into two kinds of people…
1. The ones that realise I am speaking truth and reach out sincerely for help
2. The ones that get their backs up and think their drama is real and I am patronising…
To the former, we work together and they change
To the latter, I just smile on the inside and leave them to their nonsense!
I know what it takes to change…
I know the focus required…
I KNOW the discipline required…
And most people just do not want to give to that level…
They are norms, pretending to be one of us but the ball gets dropped at the first hurdle…
I sometimes hope to make them so angry that they actually get off their butts and make a change but it hardly happens…
Instead, they feel sorry for themselves and go to some person who will tell them what they want to hear again and nothing changes…
They may even hurl an insult or two my way but they are already forgotten because they are not one of us.
I am called to the leaders, the revolutionaries, the ones who WANT MORE so bad that they get past their own nonsense, reach out to me and actually show up and do the work…
Everyone else is mostly ignored…
They are just looking for magic bullets that do not exist.
The sad thing is, I used to be one of them…
Well, never so bad as to ask for someone else’s time and then not show as that would have been too evil, even for my sorry passive past ass…
But I did my fair share of buying into nonsensical drama while talking a big game about wanting change.
Well, needless to say, I did not change that way…
I had to hit rockbottom to finally remember who I was!
Bankruptcy, depression, brokeness – Now that got my attention and I got serious about getting more.
And then through many dark seasons, with the help of my coach, things changed!
And even now, on some days there is darkness so thick that I am not sure I will be able to walk but guess what?! I pick up my fucking mat and I walk!
I don’t sit around talking about change…
I create it!
I tap into the Divine, I ask for support and then I ACTUALLY SHOW UP and do the work.
But most will not understand that!
They will claim that their life is harder than others which is why they think they cannot win!
WHAT A LOAD OF RUBBISH!
Everyone has a story! The question is, will you keep buying into the disempowering version of your story or will you stop talking nonsense and actually buckle down to do the work?
Tell me, my love, are you still in the passive phase?!
Are you going to keep waiting for a miracle?
YOUR CHOICE!
If you are ready for change, the ABUNDANCE LIBRARY is where you begin.
