I know that you have been told that there are certain ways that you have to do things to live a good life…
But you must ask yourself – Do I really want to live a ‘good’ life? or would a great, awesome life be more up my alley?!
Do I really want my life to be defined by what some person considered a good life?
I mean, who is that person, anyway?
And who made him/her the ‘God’ of you?
And yet, your whole life is defined by what this nameless, faceless person decided is a good life?!
Really?!
So many rules to follow…
So many limitations in place…
Lets look at a few taboos…
1.HOW MUCH MONEY ARE YOU ALLOWED TO MAKE?
What do you consider an obscene amount of money? And who made that choice for you? Some TV program that instilled in you the thought that to go after all the money you want would mean that you had to give up family…
Some preacher person who told you that you cannot be connected to Spirit and make a lot of money?
Some parent who made you believe that money and love were connected?
What if you just saw money as a number that allowed you to have more of the great things in life…
What if you just decided the kind of life YOU WANT TO LIVE and then you set the number and you did whatever it took to serve enough people and to get you that money, then what?
Could life become a lot simpler without all the internal angst and drama about what you think you are allowed to do or not?
Or what it could do to your relationships or not?
Why not find out for yourself, instead of going on passed down information designed to contain you so that you did not want more than they thought you should want?
2. WHAT OF SEX?
So, some person somewhere decided that to be sexual was somehow dirty…
I wonder if they mentioned that to Spirit!
Spirit who made you a highly sexual being with needs that can propel you forward or flatten you out if you force them to be silenced!
Sex is a normal human activity…
The orgasm is amazing and everyone should experience it… REGULARLY!
Whether single or in partnership with someone else, the orgasm is yours to have, to release tension when desired…
It can also be harnessed for propelling you even more powerfully towards your goals…
Whatever and however you choose to use this power, it is not something to feel dirty or ashamed about!
When you allow guilt and shame in, it makes you feel like there is something wrong with you to feel strong desire and so, then you get passionless norms walking around obeying ‘the rules’ instead of doing their bit to change the world…
Their sexuality switched off, hidden in doing things they are ashamed of or just muted out…
They lose their charisma and charm…
No one is attracted to them, no one wants to buy from them and they think it is because they are not cut out to succeed…
Creativity killed off as they kill off this part of themselves and all because they thought it was the way it had to be.
Don’t be that silly!
Allow yourself to experiment with your sexuality…
Trust that you know what is best for you…
Get help if you feel really blocked up in this area…
Stop stifling the need to orgasm – Use it to power you forward but then also, give yourself release…
For me, that heightened sense of pleasure connects me with Spirit – In that moment of release, I feel closest to God – Why would you deny yourself that? Because some person told you that you had to? Some person made you ashamed? Again, who made that person the boss of you?
3. PEOPLE
Whether in family or in friendships, there are rules that you are supposed to follow…
And these manmade rules can stifle you no end and keep you from your destiny…
Because you think that the people in your life currently have to continue to be the people in your life!
Maybe they do, maybe they don’t!
Maybe you can just release them, release yourself and see if they stick around…
Allow yourself to be yourself and see who stays for the journey while you actively seek out people who more align with who you really are.
So many people go through life trying to suit the people in their life, instead of just being themselves and letting the people come and go until they find their true tribe.
My hubby mentioned recently, as he made his way through the programs ‘PLANET EARTH’, that we are the only creatures on the planet who try so hard to stay together in the same pack for all time!
Now, I don’t consider us plain old animals, but imagine we allowed ourselves to act more on instinct rather than man-made rules and regulations…
IMagine you followed the intuitive nudge inside of you, then would you keep hanging around people that do not understand who you really are and keep trying to force you into a box that feels comfortable for them?
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To live a life that is deliberately designed takes courage to buck the rules and regulations and traditions that other people, just like us, have put in place.
What if you believed deep inside that you know what is best for you and that you are inherently good? What else would you be allowing yourself to do today?
What if you believed that the dream inside your heart is yours to create and make real, what else would you allow yourself to do today?
What if you just stopped trying to please the people in your world?
What if you allowed yourself to want and create as much money as you desire?
What if you allowed yourself to feel sexual, look sexy and to have as many orgasms as you wanted, without guilt and a need to stifle yourself?
What if you did not think that the limits make you good?
What if you really accepted that you are created in the image of the Divine with no limits and the ability to expand and expand?
What more could you be doing with your life, if you stopped trying to fit in, to blend in, to be the same and if you started to questions your limits?
Picture a life of freedom, of wealth, of service to people you want to serve, of love to and from people you enjoy being around…
That could be yours, if you will just design it…
If you will stay on the path and stop looking at just the current ways of doing things and allow yourself to forge your own path…
If you will allow yourself to make mistakes knowing that Spirit guides you and that you have the ability to recover easily…
Honey, go for freedom.
Fight for, deliberately design the life you are born to live…
Because you want to!
