It seems so simple to me now but it was not always so.

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I really did think that you had to struggle, strain, push, shove, do things you hate in order to ‘MAYBE’ get what you wanted.

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Like you, I BELIEVED that there could be no gain without pain.

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Like you, I believed that it was frivolous to think that life could feel good while I was going to a new level.

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And even now as I type this, I feel a massmind conditioned part of me wants to qualify what I am saying and ensure I am not giving the idea that you can just sit on your butt and expect everything to work out for you.

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BUt that is not who you are.

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You would be bored to just sit on your butt so even if I did say that to you, you could possibly do it for a week maximum before you start getting antsy.

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We are not shy of hard work and if anything, it gives us a sense of purpose and there ain’t nothing wrong with that unless of course, you think yuor value and worth is based on how hard you wark but that is a conversation for another day.

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For today, I want to plant this seed within your mind.

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IF IT DOES NOT FEEL GOOD, IT WILL NOT WORK.

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Because I see you, just like I used to, ignroring yourself and your desires.

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Ignoring when something feels yuk and forcing yourself to JUST KEEP GOING because you think you have to.

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You get the idea to do something simple and easy and that comes naturally to you but you think BECAUSE It is was so simple and easy and came naturally to you then it must mean that you are being lazy and running away from the work.

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SO YOU DO NOT DO THE SIMPLE, EASY STUFF and insited you tell yourself that you have NO CHOICE but to keep doing things you do not want to do because prosperity and financial wealth cannot be generated unless you are actively hating or passively putting up with nonsensical work.

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Even your relationships are approached in the same way – YOu always have to be WORKING AT it, always struggling wit hthis person or the other, always conflict resolving, always trying, trying, TRYING to be so perfect.

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Happiness is considered frivolous.

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You do not even completely realise that you do this because you were brought up on a diet of ‘No pain, no gain’, ‘money is hard to get’, money don’t grow on trees’, you cannot just do what you love and expect to get paid’, ‘love is hard and has to be fought for’ and so on.

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And you have not questioned that stuff in so long.

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Neither did I.

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I just accused myself of being lazy and bad.

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I did not love myself.

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The thing I know now and I really want you to realise, if you are ready for it.

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LIFE WORKS BETTER WHEN YOU ARE HAVING FUN.

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YOU DO NOT HAVE TO KEEP FORCING YOURSELF TO DO ANYTHING YOU DO NOT WANT TO DO.

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You really don’t.

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It will not work anyway.

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All this struggling uphill that we do – the thing you are looking for will not be found uphill.

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It is found when you allow yourself to naturally flow to it.

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For instance, I work a lot at ONLY things I WANT TO do.

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Whenever I try to force myself to do things because I think it makes me a good person or because I think it is a hoop that the Divine or some other person thinks I should be doing to be considered worthy or because everyone else says it is the best way to get what I want or whatever silly-ass reason I give myself to ignore myself, IT NEVER, EVER WORKS!

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EVER!

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And I always end up wondering why I did not trust my feelings and myself earlier.

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Because it works when I feel good about what I am doing.

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Seriously, think about it, how can life EVER work well for you if it is full of relationships you are putting up with because you think you have to, work you are putting up with because it pays the bills and you don’t do anything you want to do because you are so busy paying EVERYONE ELSE first before you even consider yourself so you pay the banks, the utility companies, the child support payments and all of that stuff because you are being ‘responsible’ and then you cannot do anything that brings you joy so you feel so STIFLED and STUCK but you think you have to.

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And you wonder why life is just not working.

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IT CANNOT WORK.

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Am I saying be irresponsible?

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No.

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But I am saying figure out a way to pay yourself first, my love.

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You cannot say you are loving yourself when you are treating yourself like that.

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Your actions have to match your words.

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And if you ain’t choosing to love yourself, you can be sure that you will not get anything lovely in life.

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RETHINK YOUR STRATEGY, my love.

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If it does not feel good, IT IS NOT GOING ANYWHERE GOOD.

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There is no happy ending to an unhappy journey.

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Life really is supposed to be easy and simple but after being conditioned by mass mind thinking, it takes courage to truly live in that connected place.

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Will you find the courage to design a life you adore deliberately?

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AWAKEN.

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Much Amazing Love

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