It gets to a certain stage in life when most ladies begin to believe that they need an intimate partner with which to share their life and who will complete them. It is not always a conscious thought that you are looking for someone to complete you but having spoken to many, many ladies at this stage in life, no matter how independent and powerful they are, there is usually this hidden agenda there.

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It is lovely to have a partner.  I found the awesome love of my life when I was 19 and we got married 3 weeks after my 21st birthday and we have been married since, so I do know it can be good.

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However, I was not looking for him to complete me.  In fact, being the religious person I was at that point, I had just made a commitment to be single for a year whilst pursuing spiritual growth, when I met him.  (lots of my clients will attest to the fact that the moment they stop desperately longing for something is the very moment they get the thing! and there is a good reason for that which you will come to understand as you read these blogs).

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Most peeps do not love themselves and are hoping that as they find this special someone who will love them, then they will feel better inside and for a short while after finding this person, it can be so glorious until the underlying flaw in this premise shows its ugly head.

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If you do not believe you are loveable and you prove that by not loving yourself, why do you think you will believe that anyone else loves you?  At some point, the veil will come off your eyes and you will still be there with your fears, anxieties about being unloveable and if this person even so much as says the wrong thing, you will immediately jump to the conclusion that they do not love you.

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There will be a lot of insecurity in the relationship as you try to be whatever you think that person needs you to be in order to keep loving you.

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And a lot of this goes on under the radar.  For the most part, most people do not understand why their relationship feels insecure, painful with a few high moments.  But again, it is one of those things where we start to convince ourselves that this is as good as it gets and we should be thankful to have anything and THE HORROR of being alone so better to be unhappy with someone than all on your lonesome!

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Every great intimate relationship starts with you loving YOU.

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Begin now to be tender and loving towards yourself.

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Begin now to make yourself a priority in your own life.

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You deserve your own attention and affection.

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And I can promise that when you do this, you will then attract people who will treat you as well as you treat yourself.

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Remember, LIFE SUPPORTS YOU!

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Much Amazing Love

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