Some people will call you selfish because there are certain things you will no longer do for them.

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Some people will say you are standoffish because you are no longer available for their nonsense.

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Some people will call you proud and rude because you are clear on what you do or do not want.

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SO WHAT?!

 

Let them talk.

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Man, if only I had learnt this lesson a lot earlier than I did, how much time would I have gained by not wasting it on trying to tone myself down to suit all these people with their ever changing rules of what I was allowed to do or want or say?!!!

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I hope you learn a lot quicker than me.

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When people get uncomfortable with your certainty about your own wishes, they try to enrol you in downplaying your own awesome self.

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And if you are just about getting your own self-belief together, it can be so easy to believe that what they are saying about how you should or should not behave, is true.

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It can feel lonely, actually, when you start to truly love yourself and stand up for what you desire out of your life.

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So, please go within.  Listen to your own intuition. (Recognise that people have come to see you a certain way – a way that you allowed them to see you in the past so there is no need to get too angry with them.)

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And now, you are choosing again to set new boundaries and to be assertive about what you will or will not take.

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It makes them feel uncomfortable.

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You are breaking free of the box they put you in.

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It challenges their view of the world and they may take it out on you.

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STAND STRONG in who you are.

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Even if you make a mistake and go too far the other way, it is still ok.  You can backtrack if you think you need to.

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This is your life, my love.

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LIVE IT in a way that makes you happy.  Stop believing the nonsense that choosing your own happiness is a selfish thing. IT IS NOT!

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Why on earth do you think we are here to struggle and be sad, in order to make everyone else happy?  Is their happiness more important than your own?

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AWAKEN, my love.

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Boundaries and assertiveness are a good thing.

 

REVEL IN THEM

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Much Amazing Love

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