1.GOD TOLD ME.
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Lost of spiritual people use the Divine as their excuse for staying put in a bad, toxic relationship. It is like they want to blame the Divine for all their pain. “Well, HE told me to do it so there must be a reason.” they say in a pious voice that hides the fear of being alone.
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Now, I know that Papa brought my hubby and I together but if for whatever reason, we both make choices that result in our relationship becoming toxic, then I cannot use that initial guidance from 20 years ago as the reason not to seek CURRENT GUIDANCE. No, I am not saying run away at the first sign of trouble but it does take two people to continually choose each other every single day. We have free will, you know?! The Divine is not asking you to stay in pain, honey. SO MAKE A POWERFUL CHOICE.
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2. BUT WE WERE SO GOOD TOGETHER.
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Honey, if that were true, you would not have broken up. We have this tendency to look back on the ‘good old days’ and filter out all the nasty bits. In some instances that can be good or else hardly any mother would have another child… EVER! but in the case of throwing yourself back into a situation where you were hurt and possibly abused, then NO… JUST NO!
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3. NO ONE ELSE WILL LOVE ME.
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Most of us have been conditioned to accept and expect conditional love. We are not sure that we can have the relationship we would really wand and so we convince ourselves that this is as good as it can get and we best be grateful for it.
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Unfortunately, lots of people do that in MANY areas of their life and end up with a suboptimal life that they think they have no choice over. Do not be one of them. You can be loved unconditionally. You can have a great relationship that empowers and uplifts you. You can be treated well. DO NOT SETTLE.
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4. IT WAS NOT THAT BAD.
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Yes, it was. Refer to point 2.
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Please do not try to convince yourself that you were exaggerating how you felt or how bad it was because now you feel adrift outside of the relationship. This is your opportunity to rediscover yourself, lean into the Divine and find true love there so that you are never tempted to settle for some half-love that drains you ever again.
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5. THEY ASKED YOU TO COME BACK.
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Yes, but why? Because they are lonely or because they have done the inner work required to change? Is this wisdom for you to return or is it just co-dependent need? HAVE YOU CHANGED at all or are you both just going to end up hurting each other again but even more reluctant to break up because you have to go through the pain of separation again?
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Love does not have to hurt, my love and if you continually throw yourself back into relationships that hurt you, you gotta wonder what you need to heal.
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And while you are going through all this drama, guess what is happening to the calling on your life?! NOTHING MUCH. This is how so many people end their life unfulfilled because so much energy was given to bad relationships that were never going to get better.
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AWAKEN, my love.
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Much Amazing Love
