Self Development

Admit You Need Help

At some point, you must finally accept that if you’re ever going to break through to your next level (whatever that is for you), you need accountability, real talk and ongoing support.

Yes, of course you COULD do it by yourself… BUT YOU ARE NOT DOING IT!

No, you don’t want to admit you need help — and of course, you’d prefer not to pay for it… BUT YOU SHOULD GET OVER YOURSELF AND GET THE HELP!

How many more 12-month periods must pass before you finally admit you struggle to stay consistent with anything that doesn’t give you immediate gratification?

You are addicted to immediate gratification, and you’re not admitting it. If the results are not IMMEDIATELY apparent or measurable, you find it IMPOSSIBLE to stick with the thing that will actually get you there.

The problem is that the bigger dreams and goals you deeply desire will NOT happen in one second. They take time. They require consistent action over a period of time — and some of those actions are intangible. You cannot measure their results immediately; you have to trust the path.

For instance, there are certain things you keep telling yourself that you will do – Be it reading your sacred text regularly  or having a consistent meditation practise so as to deepen your spiritual wisdom and knowledge, or staying on an eating plan that allows you to reach a certain weight and stay there, or doing the daily business growth activities that will result in the big pay day later down the road.

With accountability, you’d do these things — because your pride would be on the line and you wouldn’t be able to hide. Instead, you keep pretending that “one day, FINALLY,” you will magically become a different person (without changing anything) and THEN you’ll be able to do the things you keep promising yourself. You even hope you might not need to grow into the person who achieves your desire — that it will just magically materialise…

What actually happens is that you stay stagnant and scared in a restricted life that you feel a victim of…

You blame your loved ones, the economy, the lack of jobs, the lack of good people, your skin colour, your sexuality, the foreigners (or whoever) for causing all your issues.

This way, you don’t have to admit that you simply do not want to do the work of growth and expansion.

Admitting this would require you to pay someone to hold you accountable…

Pay someone to show you the things you refuse to see on your own…

Pay someone to challenge your long-held beliefs so that you can be free of them…

The thing is, this refusal to do the consistent work of growth affects all areas of your life

Your relationships suffer because you refuse to grow your emotional intelligence. You cannot read the room, and you keep hurting people who love you — but of course, it’s THEIR fault, NEVER yours.

Your health suffers

Your finances suffer

And all because of this addiction to instant gratification and your refusal to get accountability — even though you KNOW you struggle to do anything consistently over time.

Well, okay then.  You do you, my love.  As always, you are unconditionally loved, even if you choose to be a bit of a wimp!

However, if you’re finally done pretending you’ve ‘got this’ when you KNOW you don’t

Let’s talk in the MAKE YOUR LIFE WORK BETTER Diagnostic Consultation

With the Divine’s guidance, I will help you see CLEARLY what is getting in your way and what to do to handle it

If appropriate, I will also suggest an ongoing coaching program to ensure you are consistently held accountable

Go now to https://mibusiness.lpages.co/rebirth to find out more about the session

I look forward to seeing you thrive in all areas of your life, if you are willing.

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