1. I AM THE AUTHORITY IN MY LIFE
Most people think life happens to them and they just have to roll with the punches. They feel victimised by the circumstances of their childhood and any painful thing that ever happened to them. They live in a hostile universe and depending on their personality, they will either fight to the death to get what they want at anyone’s expense or they will give up and settle for whatever crumbs life seems to give them (and probably tell themselves it is because they are so good and nice). If spiritual/religious, they believe it is all their higher power’s fault so they say things like ‘By God’s Grace, this will or will not happen’ or when things are hard, they tell themselves and anyone that will listen that their higher power must not want them to have the thing. If life is good, then they are obsessively grateful to their higher power, just in case it all gets taken away again because they do not really understand why their life is good and other people’s lives do not seem to be that good and so they blame their higher power positively by talking about how blessed and favoured they must be.
It is all a nonsense.
Regardless of how good or bad your life looks right now, you are the one that has determined it. Passively or deliberately, YOU are the one with all the choices, you have dominion and you ARE the authority in your life. The Divine will not force you to live a great life nor will they save you from a painful life. You can ask for assistance, of course, but YOU are the authority in your life. It is not happening to you. YOU are happening to it so it would be best that you wake up completely to this fact. Of course, if life feels good presently, you may not want to wake up to this in case you destroy something but that just tells you that you are afraid and it is only a matter of time before you unknowingly create your fears. I almost want to leave you in your ignorant bliss but the fact that you are reading this, tells me you are not as ignorant as you wish you were. 
And once your eyes are open to truth, you cannot go back to sleep so you may as well learn how to predictably/deliberately create the life you want.
2. I AM ONE WITH THE DIVINE AND THEREFORE, I AM POWERFUL & LIMITLESS
So now that you realise you are the authority, you need to understand that you are a Divine being, having a human experience. A Divine being created in the image and likeness of THE DIVINE – the source of all there is. The same power that created all there is, is available to you and IS you. YOu are one with the Divine and you are powerful and limitless and part of the reason for your existence on this planet is to remember this and to create whatever you desire. Creating requires power so understanding that you are one with the Divine, loved unconditionally by the Divine, with access to the greatest energy in the universe – LOVE (an no, not some wimpy kind of love). In remaining deliberately connected to the Divine, you allow love energy to flow through you and you can focus that energy on whatever it is you want to create and it MUST be created.
Again, the same power that created everything is available to you, if you will learn to avail yourself of it.
Also, this is a relationship, a deep intimate relationship though some choose not to be in relationship and even that is allowed because again, you are the authority in your life. However, I can tell you that the relationship is worth investing time and energy in. There is nothing like knowing that whatever happens in the physical reality, you are safe in the love of the Divine. there is nothing like having a constant lover, friend, parent and whatever you need, always available, always loving you, always guiding you when you ask for it. It gives you a deep sense of confidence which then allows you to take walks outside of your comfort zone.
3. MY PURPOSE ON PLANET EARTH IS TO ENJOY BEING HERE ON PLANET EARTH
Lots of people think they do not know their purpose, they just know that they do not like their life the way it is right now. And that is a start towards knowing your purpose but you can also just realise this simple fact: You are here on planet earth to enjoy being here on planet earth. So how to know your purpose – get to know yourself and figure out what you want. I tell clients and anyone that will listen that one of the most important questions you can ask yourself is simply – WHAT DO I WANT? – but most people think that life cannot be that simple. They think it is greedy or selfish to consider what they want. They think they are meant to give themselves up for everyone else’s agenda. And so they tell themselves they do not know their purpose while sacrificing themselves for everyone else. They hope they will get a prize at the end of life or they hope that someone will hand them a good life because they have been so good and unfortunately, that is a lie taught by religion and family members who are trying to control you and keep you doing what THEY tell you to do.
WAKE UP!
This is YOUR life – WHAT DO YOU WANT?
What would add to yoru enjoyment of life?
What would make you happy?
If your life is, right now, full of things you do not want and it feels bad, then you are OFF your purpose path.
Of your life feels awesome, then you are ON your purpose path.
Yes, there will be blips here and there when in transition or just because the physical rerality is always changing but check the overall tone/vibe of your life – Does it feel good or does it feel bad? That is a clear indicator of whether you are on or off your purpose path.
And I don’t care how sacred you think certain parts of your life are. THERE IS ALWAYS a more joyful path if you are willing to give up the idea that life must be full of struggle and pain. Or that it is selfish to pursue your own happiness. Again, this is just nonsense that you have been conditioned to believe and nwo you think your belief ABOUT life is LIFE itself. It is not. It is just your interpretation and it is a painful one so why the heck do you persist in holding on to it? Remember, you are the authority in your life and you are one with the Divine and powerful/limitless so WHAT DO YOU WANT?
4. I CHOOSE TO LIVE BEHIND THE PAIN & LIMITING BELIEFS OF THE PAST AND RISE VICTORIOUS IN MY TRUE DESIGN
One thing that creates your life are your beliefs ABOUT life. As I mentioned already, when you take your beliefs ABOUT life to BE life then you think you are stuck and trapped. Which is all well and good if you are stuck in awesome circumstances because you have managed to unknowingly cultivate beliefs that support life awesomeness but not so great when you have passively cultivated beliefs that support life awfulness. It is time to get deliberate if you fall into the latter category. What are you believing ABOUT life? Look at a specific area in your life that feels painful and ask yourself what someone would have to believe to create this experience. Ask the Divine for assistance with this work. You cannot change something you are not aware of so get aware. Get to knwo yourself, really deeply know yourself. And choose new thoughts and beliefs ABOUT life. You are probably not at the place where you can just have no beliefs but you can create beliefs that allow you to create a better life experience.
In terms of pain, this is all the traumatic experiences that you have gone through. Yes, you can hold onto them and keep rehearsing them as you justify why you feel the pain that you feel and of course, that is your right to do so but is it helping you? I know this can sound a little callous but I am giving you the facts so you can decide how free you would prefer to be. You can hold on to the pain because it has become a part of your identity, you can keep waiting for the apologies, you can forever beat yourself up about all the stupid mistakes you made, you can decide that you are not worthy of good things because ‘obviously’ if you were, then bad things would never happen to you, you can blame the Divine for allowing these things to happen to you, you can see a therapist for the rest of your life as you talk and talk and talk about all the pain and trauma and hurt and unfairness of life, you can fight with anyone that tries to tell you that you can be free of it and tell yourself how they just do not understand all the trouble you have seen. You can do all that and more, if you like OR… you could choose that you would prefer your true design life – the free, fulfilled, financially-abundant, love-drenched life and therefore be willing to let all the stuff go. No, I don’t expect it all to disappear in one second but that decision to finally allow yourself to prosper will begin a process of healing that will lead you to rise victorious in your true design life.
5. I CREATE MY OWN REALITY
And now for the action part. There are two kinds of actions to be considered – the internal stuff and the external stuff. most people focus on just the external stuff. They are so convinced that if they just work harder, longer and if it is complicated and stressful then maybe they will finally get what they want. They forget that there is no happy ending to an unhappy journey. You need to be enjoying the journey and the destination. Yes, I understand that that seems simplistic because we have been taught to worry about everything, to work hard in horrid ways for everything and you even have evidence that it got you somewhere and so, what the heck you saying, Rosemary?! Well, again, I would say that you would not be reading this VERY LONG post if you were completely satisfied and happy where your stressful hard work has got you. There is value in working hard and I do believe in doing a whole lot of what I want to do in order to achieve what I want to achieve but it must be partnered with the inner work of manifestation – a fancy way of saying focus all your inner energy on what your external energy is creating and it will feel easy, simple and swift to create your goals, whatever they are.
The inner work includes things like visualising what you want, writing down what you want numerous times, feeling as though you have already done it, speaking it as though already done. These simple things help you focus all your attention on that which you desire and also make you a frequency match for what you want. As already established, you are one with the Divine and you are powerful and limitless, all of that power can be focused on creating what you want by writing, speaking, seeing and feeling it. And like a radio station, you must be tuned to a certain frequency to access a certain station so you must be tuned to a certain frequency to access certain experiences in life – The writing, speaking, seeing and feeling will help you attain that frequency so that the physical work you do has more of a chance of getting you what you want or something better, rather than working your butt off for some less-than version of what you what that you just settle for because it all seems too hard to keep going for the real goal. No matter how hard you work, if you are at the wrong frequency for something then you will never get that something.
WAKE UP!
BONUS – EVERYONE IS POWERFUL IN THEIR OWN RIGHT
A HUGE reason why you will not get where you want to go in life is other people. If you are subtly convinced that the people around you are weaker than you and need you to give yourself up in order for them to have the energy to live a good life, then you will forever subnit to their demands upon your life and you will even tell yourself that it is because you are good and nice, kind person and maybe even that the Divine wants you to do this so that you earn your spot in some heaven in the next life or some other story you tell yourself.
You are believing a lie about other people that does not help them or you. No one is weaker than you. EVERYONE is one with the Divine and limitless/powerful. EVERYONE has access to the same abilities that you do. They may have CHOSEN not to develop their abilities but that is not your responsibility. There is so much more that I can say about this but this post is long enough. Let me summarise this point by saying – STOP taking on everyone else’s drama and stop thinking that you are somehow better than everyone else (I know this is not a conscious thought and you might even feel quite horrified that I think this of you. No, you do not have to tell me why you do not think this and why your specific situation is different – I will not believe you anyway if you are permanently giving yourself up for everyone else.)
Set yourself free from the saviour complex and get on with creating the awesome life you desire.
OK… so there you have it. Five (plus a bonus one) standards to live by, if you want to be free, fulfilled, financially-abundant and love-drenched – The Deliberate Millionaire Lifestyle.
And why would you not want that.
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