1. BEING SOMEONE YOU ARE NOT
It is easy to fall into this trap, if you lack the courage to be disliked or if you think it is essential to be popular. You end up stifling yourself, hoping against all hope that the people in your life will accept you.
Except, you are not being yourself so even if they do accept you, you still do not feel loved because no one ever saw you and YOU KNOW IT!
Just be you and know that you are enough.
Affirm it: I AM ENOUGH!
2. ALLOWING FEAR TO DETERMINE YOUR NEXT MOVE
I still remember my daughter turning down a star singing role in a Christmas play because she was shy. To this day, she uses that as a reference point for saying YES to anything even if it scares her. Because she remembers how she allowed her need t stay in the comfort zone, destroy her chance to do something she really wanted to do.
Do not make the same mistake.
3. LACKING PERSISTENCE
There is a saying – Tough times never last but tough people do.
the truth is, no matter how dark the darkness you are goin g through is, it will finally give way to the light so all you need to do is stay on track until it does.
Do not do something you will ALWAYS regret because temporary darkness clouded your judgement – Stay the course
4. STAYING AROUND NEGATIVE PEEPS
There is no relationship so sacred that you have to keep hanging around someone who is being pretty darned annoying and negative. Limit their access to you or simply, bow out completely. I know it seems callous but this is your ONE life, make yourself a priority.
5. STAYING AROUND DOGMA YOU NO LONGER AGREE WITH
This one was quite tough for me. For a long time, I tried to make my religion fit my more expanded realisations about the Divine but finally, I had to admit that it was no longer working for me and walk away. Fears of hell and eternal damnation threatened to keep me trapped in place. Fears of being alone as most of my social life was definied by my religion also almost made me back down but finally, I realised that I could be holding myself back from a more expanded life experience and more enjoyable relationships – I was.
I stepped away and life began to open up. It was not always easy but it was worth it.
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Much Amazing Love