Your Mess Is Your Message & Your Vision Is Your Permission!

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Everyone thinks they have to show up in the world as having it all together…

They want to put on a mask and be all perfect…

Knowing all things, being all things to all people, saviour of the world types that actually do not do very much at all because all their energy is taken up with trying to pretend they have it all made!

And yet, we all KNOW that you are putting on a front!

We all KNOW it and we dislike you for trying to be perfect (just so you know!)

And we turn our backs on your crazy nonsense!

The people we admire are the AUTHENTIC ones – the real ones that wear their hearts on their sleeves and somehow manage to keep things going…

The ones that encourage us to believe that even though things are not perfect now, we have a shot!

They show us that we could make more stuff happen if we just stayed on the journey…

I used to be that person, pretending to know it all, pretending to always be happy and full of life but over the last year or so, I have progressively taken off the layers and laid myself bare more and more and more to the people I am called to serve…

Why?

Because I truly care for your happiness and it really does not serve you to think that getting everything you want is going to be a happy walk in the park while singing happy-clappy songs and doing nothing more than wishing for it!

That has not worked for anyone I know, and I highly doubt that it will work for you!

But then people get in their heads this idea that their hardship is theirs alone…

that no one else has gone through the same nonsense…

they make it mean that they cannot make their own business work…

They make it mean any number of crazy things and guess what!

It just means you are on the journey!

And the ones that really make it and go on to impact crazy amounts of people and make an awesome amount of money, are simply the ones who own all their craziness, lay it on the line and keep doing the work anyway!

Yes, honey, your mess is your message!

Especially if you are one of my peeps, called to inspire, teach, coach, speak, heal…

Then for real…

No one wants your perfect, I-have-it-all-together nonsense…

That may have worked in your corporate career where everyone is fake but in the entrepreneur world…

No one can relate to that and you will just sound like every other nonsensical person out there trying to be perfect and bland…

Let that nonsense go!

And also, let go of the fake authenticity where you are trying to pull on my heartstrings every other second…

And hoping that I will cry my way to buying from you because you told me your story of rags to riches…

I need to have a gut reaction to you…

And that only happens when I see you being vulnerable AND authentic…

Have you ever had a vulnerability hangover?  As Brene Brown, I think, puts it…

Where you share something with the world and you wonder if you are breaking your business by being that real?  And frankly, you feel sick that you did such a crazy thing…

And you wonder if you can be that real again but…

But you cannot do it any other way anymore because you are committed to building a life surrounded by people you are called to serve?

And so, you have to trust the fact that the real ones will come and everyone else will be repelled…

And what if you have spent most of your business life attracting anyone from anywhere and so now as you decide to show up powerfully as yourself, messy message and all…

As you finally start to pay attention to that true vision that you have always had and you finally give yourself permission to be you in all your messy glory…

You then see all the people you sweat blood and tears to get onto your mailing list, you see them start to walk away because that was not what they signed up for and in that moment you worry that you are maybe going too far but you choose to trust…

Trust that as you deliberately polarize the lookie-loos, you will finally get in touch with the real ones…

But it is scary…

In your present moment, it is scary…

And you wonder…

But you keep the faith, you keep showing up, you refuse to let the fear overwhelm you…

You put your game face on and you trust that your story, your mess is exactly what your people need to hear…

And you trust that the vision you have carried forever is all the permission you need to be your true real self calling in the people you want to serve…

And honey, you just keep showing up…

You set the goal for your business, for your life and then you release it and JUST SHOW UP!

You tap into a deep courage within you just to be you and KNOW that it is enough!

You stop indulging the fear, the self-doubt…

You see it but you lay it to one side and you show up with your mess and with your glory and with your vision…

You stop waiting for some external person to tell you to go…

You say what must be said…

And you release it…

You stop caring so much about the result because you trust that your people are watching cautiously to start with and then little by little, they put their hands up and come closer into your world…

And little by little, everything changes…

The people you are surrounded by are exactly the people you saw in your vision of what life could be…

Your bank account looks exactly how you saw it in your vision and in fact, you now wish you had asked for more and so you do…

You wake up feeling good and excited about the work you are now doing and wonder why it took you so long to take off the limits that others (and yourself) had imposed on you because now, life feels so good…

Business, life, life, business…

All flowing lovely together…

And you feel fulfilled but not so fulfilled that you are not already looking to the next thing…

Ultimately, you learn by trusting that your mess is your true message and your vision has always been your permission to move.

Is there a point to this?

Your mess is your message – Share it…

Your vision is your permission – MOVE!

Fight for, deliberately design the life you are born to live

Because you want to!

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