You Want A Wealth Generating Business? Make the Most Of Your Time…

Make the Most Of Your Time

Everyday, peeps tell me about how little time they have…

They have families…

They have jobs…

They have friends…

They have A LIFE!

And it all feels too hard to fit in the building of a business…

Have you ever felt that way?

But this is the thing, you want that business…

You really do want it and at the same time, you keep giving me all these reasons why you cannot have it…

And honey, you always get what you believe you can have…

So, all those excuses/reasons you are giving me about why you cannot do it, are just taking away your own options…

You know that, right?

I am sometimes, amused and at the same time, saddened by the fact that you persist in buying into these excuses that you give yourself…

Because you think you are proving something to me about how busy you are and why you cannot do all the things you and I both KNOW you need to do…

You keep trying to tell me that I do not understand your predicament…

YOu keep telling me that I have it easier than you…

And you can keep telling me that, if you want…

But really all you are doing is shooting yourself in the foot by believing the reasons you give yourself.

I am going to be blunt with you, ok?

And it may make you question me but you know what, I am done with pretending that you can have it all when you are not actually willing to do what it takes to get it all…

So, read on, if you dare but don’t say I did not warn you about this…

  1. BE A DIVA

So, you are nice and sweet and you hate to ask people to help you, or even ask people for what you want…

Well, then, honey, keep doing what you do not want.

It is that simple.

But do not come tell me about how little time you have when you have determined to be everyone’s lackey and do what everyone else wants you to do and then you tell me and yourself about having no time!

I mean seriously, are you listening to yourself?

You keep doing things you do not want to do because you think it is too diva-ish to tell people exactly what you want them to do for you!

So what, that you are not even that good at this thing that you persist in doing…

So what, that someone else is sooo much better at doing it than you and yet, you persist in pretending to be some kind of super person that is good at everything and in the meantime, the thing that you are actually good at doing does not get done because…

YOU DO NOT HAVE TIME?!!!

Come on, now!

Are you serious about changing lives or not?

Or is it a mediocre existence for you then?

2. SET YOUR OWN AGENDA IF YOU WANT TO MAKE THE MOST OF YOUR TIME

I know, I know, you love your family and friends and you want them to be happy…

You want them to have the happiest existence even if that means that you have the saddest existence…

You want to be the best parent on the planet, except you make the assessment about what that means by how manipulated you feel on any given day…

You want to be the best partner on the planet and again, you determine that by how manipulated you feel on any given day…

You want to be the best friend and again you determine what that means by how good they feel about you – So what if you have to drown out your own dreams and desires so that they do not feel challenged by you and your new ideas…

So what that they do not grow and they do not want you to grow either…

So what about all that?!  No, instead you think that you should keep humoring them and keeping them happy and hiding the real parts of you so that you do not end up alone…

And all that posturing for other people takes time!

IT TAKES A LOT OF TIME!

You forget that even great spiritual teacher, Jesus, when going about his business and when his mum and brothers came to see him, he did not drop everything he was doing and go attend to their every whim…

Instead He said “Who are my mum and brothers? Those who do the will of God”

Even he did not just jump to the beck and call of anyone and you think that you should?

Why?

Whatever your spiritual bent or even if you do not have one, please understand that every great person set their own agenda…

No matter what level of greatness you aim for, you must do the same!

Unless you learn to set your own agenda and STICK TO IT, then you will NEVER make the most of your time.

And I do understand that you feel selfish, evil, careless and yep, possibly back to feeling like a DIVA – I get it…

I really do but this is the thing, if you have something that can change lives…

If your life is to have meaning…

If you are to create wealth, living a meaningful life then you have to set your own agenda.

3. IF IT IS NOT A HELL YES, THEN IT IS A NO!

Simple…

If you are doing things just to please people, just to make everyone but yourself, happy…

If you are doing things because you think that ‘someone’ has to do it and that ‘someone’ is you…

If there is a huge trace of resentment about having to be that ‘someone’…

If there is even a hint of ‘martyr’ about you, then…

STOP!

JUST STOP!

No one, except the most weak and manipulative people, want you to sacrifice all that you are, in order to fulfil their needs…

And unless you see this for the fact that it is, you will keep playing to the tune of people who, though they care about you, just want to get their needs met and you have provided a way for that to happen and so they take advantage of that without any regard for your needs.

And honey, YOU LET THEM DO THIS!

Because you keep thinking that your needs do not matter!

And they do.

You are here on this planet for a reason, for a purpose and you will not make that happen while you keep trying to play to everyone else’s agenda.

Ask yourself “DO I WANT TO DO THIS NEXT THING I AM ABOUT TO DO?”

No?, then find someone else to do it and get to work doing YOU boldly.

It may take time to delegate or delete things from your life that really, should not be there but START and START NOW!

Or else, nothing will change and your next 12 months will be as busy and unproductive as your last 12 months.

And frankly, you cannot keep letting this happen.

You do have purpose, calling on your life and you have to decide to live it out NOW!

Listen all those church activities, play date activities, random event invitations etc that fill up your time because you feel you have to do them…  Are they taking you to your goals or not?

Or are you just posturing for other people?

A life well lived is a DELIBERATE LIFE!

And to be deliberate, you have to be willing to ask yourself the hard questions…

Are you in this to live a full life and die spent?

Or are you just here to get by?

You have to make a choice, a deliberate choice about this…

And even on the days when you KNOW that people think you are selfish or some other horrid name, you have to stand in the strength of your conviction about what you are here on this planet to do…

Some people will not like it but your people will LOVE IT!

And your people will come because now, you have found the time to call them out.

Everyone has 24 hours…

Every single person and some use those 24 hours to create a life and a business they love…

Others give excuses about why they cannot…

Which one are you?

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