Why Are You Allowing Them To Say THAT About You?

It started as a joke…

This person, probably a loved one, joked about something you do, something you are…

And you laughed and though, you felt a little hurt, you did not make a big deal of it…

YOu thought that it was a one-off…

Maybe they joked about your work and how you think you are the business when really, you are just like them…

Maybe they spoke about your skin, your body, your personality traits and they undermined you but all through a happy, laugh-y tone of voice…

And well, you let it go…

But it now continues…

And what was once slightly amusing, is now pretty hurtful but you keep smiling it off, keep trying not to make it a big deal but the hurt is growing, the resentment is building…

But STILL you tell yourself to ignore it…

You try to understand where they are coming from…

You know they love you so you don’t want to think that they mean badly but it really is starting to grate…

Every time you see them, you leave feeling a little more down on yourself…

But you continue to grin and bear it!

HOW CRAZY!

At what point did you stop valuing yourself so much that others were allowed to talk nonsense about you, TO YOU!!!! and get away with it?

At what point did you start thinking that keeping the peace meant allowing others ( no matter how loved) to joke about who you are, TO YOUR FACE and be allowed to carry right on?

When did you stop loving yourself?

When did you start believing them?

I know you think it is a small thing but really, is it?

It is hurting you and you continue to allow it.

As the saying goes “What you allow, will continue”

It does not make you the bigger person…

And really honey, it simply is not funny…

And when you allow this and then you walk away from the encounter with it playing back in your mind, it eats up your energy and that limits your creativity…

And that limits your ability to do the work you want to do in the world…

That LIMITS YOU!

So, please, put a stop to it!

Get assertive and ask for what you want!

Handle the underlying fears and uncertainty as well because it is these seemingly unrelated emotional blocks that cause your purpose-driven business to stall…

HANDLE IT!

Stop pretending it means nothing!

You are under no obligation to make sense to anyone

And they do not get to undermine things that they do not understand.

And for freak’s sake, stop telling yourself that it is not a big deal…

IT IS!

And what you are doing right now, is people-pleasing to the detriment of YOU!

Be done with it.

You have a powerful call on your life and you want to bring it about – You will be attacked in the realm of your personality because you need to learn to stand up for yourself so that you can do it in the marketplace too.

Learn the lesson quick!

There is work to be done

Fight for, deliberately design the life you are born to live

Because you want to

PS – It is these little things that get in the way of you creating and promoting your products, services, books, music, art and it is also these little things that you do not even realise are getting in your way.  You need an objective point of view to help you see where you may be letting this nonsense get in your way.  Let’s talk one on one and let me help you remove the mental blocks to your success – Apply here (limited spots so be quick) RosemaryNonnyknight.com/freedomsession

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