When ‘Because I want To’ Clashes With ‘Because We Want To’ – Being in a relationship when you are a Diva!

OK, so honestly, I don’t even know that I should be talking about this yet because I have no pat answers to give…

Maybe, there will never be any pat answers…

But let’s talk about it anyway…

This is the thing…

When you are one of us, Deliberate Millionaires (rosemarynonnyknight.com/dmfasttrack – Yep, a quick plug!), and you are living with someone who tries to get it but does not completely…

It is hard…

They want you to do things like clean the house and do the dishes and your head is permanently in the clouds…

You have big thinking happening and you cannot see why they refuse to just get someone else to help with all that other stuff…

But you love them…

And really, you kinda need that grounded-ness…

The call to remember what it is like to be normal…

To sometimes come down from the crazy heights of changing lives and creating wealth to change a diaper or two…

To stay in touch with the world around you…

You need it a little of the time…  But you do not want it…

Actually, truth be told, I am not even sure that you need it ever…

It just sounded good to say that 🙂

There probably is something to be said for staying in touch with the people you feel called to serve, right…

In the world but not of it or something like that!

But, back to teh subject at hand, if you are in relationship with someone, then the chances are, that you will come head-to-head with this issue…

And I do, on a regular basis…

Make no mistake about it, I LOVE my hubby – He is a man above other men…

The only man I have ever slept with and the only man I ever intend to sleep with…

He sees me…

He gets me… (well, a lot of the time 🙂 )

He loves me…

And I feel secure in this love…

Blessed to have it…

He brings wisdom to my business that my visionary, ‘see the big picture’ self cannot always see…

He has skills that I do not have…

Skills that take the vision out of my head and make it very, very practical…

He is the best DAD on the planet to my princesses…

Yep, I love this man…

And yet, sometimes, SOMETIMES! I want to kill him and HE CERTAINLY WANTS TO KILL ME!

Because I am not normal…

I used to be…

Well, actually, I used to TRY to be…

Do the cooking, cleaning, ironing (actually, no, I never did that!) and all of that stuff…

But now, I just cannot be bothered with it…

I find people to help me out as soon as possible…

Sometimes, even before I can afford to do that because I KNOW that I will have to rise to the ocassion and make the extra money required to get them on board…

But this is the thing, ‘Team Rosemary’ has a life too and so they are not there 24/7 and so, some stuff still needs to be done…

And no, I do not want to do it!!!

NO, NO, NO!!!!

You can see how this might be VERY frustrating for a dude who wants everything spic and span all the time and who is surrounded by 3 young princesses (and they KNOW they are princesses!) and 1 crazy mama!

Yep, it can cause ‘issues’ and that is just saying it lightly!

So, what do you do when ‘Because I want to’ has to find a way to become ‘Because WE want to’?

Truth be told, I still don’t know…

I take it one incident at a time and for today, I am going to increase the number of hours that ‘Team Rosemary’ are around and so I better get busy serving more people, right?

And to you reading all the above, feeling amazed and maybe even a little disgusted by the ABJECT SELFISHNESS you see in me…

I say, “YOU JUST DON’T GET IT!”

You are not one of us so go away!

Whereas you who KNOW what I mean and have maybe never had it stated so plainly before – To you, I say, you need to come join me in the Deliberate Millionaire (RosemaryNonnyKnight.com/dmfasttrack) where we know who we are and what we are called to do…

And we know that we have to work these issues out in order to maintain relationships and yet at the same time, fulfil the mandate on our lives…

We are called to serve lots of people and there is no more time to pretend to live like a ‘norm’…

We are not norms…

We have to be the leaders that we are called to be ALL THE TIME!

Even when it annoys the hell out of the partners we have chosen to do life with…

And honey, you need your own posse of people who get you and get your craziness because sometimes, it can feel pretty darned lonely being us…

And that is one of the reasons I created the Deliberate MIllionaire Fast Track Group…

It is a safe spot for you to let your hair down and be the DIVA (whether male or female) you are…

You can moan for a while and we will let you and then you can be sure that we will call you to the next level…

Check us out and come join in because together we are changing the world…

RosemaryNonnyKnight.com/dmfasttrack

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Because you want to!

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