I know it feels like the done thing to make sure that every single thing you do, is absolutely right before you do it
You don’t want to appear selfish
You don’t want to be one of those people who don’t care for others
You want everything you do to be ‘good’ and ‘right’ and ‘wholesome’
And you also want to appear to be a saint to people around you (if you are honest though I guess you might not be honest about that part 😃 )
And also, if you are of a certain religious ilk, you do not want to end up in hell.
Well, by the time you have thought through all of the above…
And maybe even more thoughts that I have not yet mentioned…
Years have gone by and you have done nothing much to create the life you desire
But you are thinking very hard about it
So it feels like you are doing something
But you are not.
And life feels yuk
And all because you were so concerned about your motivation
(And also what others would think of you)
Dare to be free of that nonsense
Dare to be childlike in your approach to life
Dare to just do things because you want to do them
Dare to allow yourself to change direction whenever you want to
Dare to be free of pre-conceived ideas of what is right, wrong and all that jazz
Dare to trust that at heart, you are a caring, loving person and so you do not need to distrust yourself so much – YOU are not going to deliberately do things to hurt anyone else…
And you do not even have to overthink that.
It is just your nature.
Stop living in fear of yourself and your motivation
It is that fear that causes you to do silly things like stay stuck in a life that does not feel good
And get into a ‘dog-eat-dog’ situation where you think the whole universe is out to get you and so you try to get them first
It is when you ignore the whispers of true desire within you that you act from a fear-driven, ‘what does the world want from me?’ place…
You start trying to please people, hoping to keep them happy and on your side…
Instead of seeking to be of service and love on the planet
Honey, at heart, you are good
And act confidently towards your desires now.
Without all the overthinking and self-doubting.
And before you go, I have an awesome book gift for you – The Deliberate Millionaire FREEDOM book – It will support you in dropping old ideas that block your ability to create success – check it out at RosemaryNonnyKnight.com/freedombook
Much Amazing Love