Starters And Finishers – Which One Are You?

There are starters and there are finishers…

People who lead and people who follow…

Starters who can get things started and accelerated…

Starters who make everyone feel great, excited, part of something amazing…

Finishers who take all the excitement, awesomeness, distil it into a system and keep the machine running!

Both are needed!

But truthfully, I find finishers, without the covering of a starter, annoying!

They dither, doubt, wonder, speculate and ultimately choose safety over creating a dream…

Yes, if there were no finishers in the world, it would be hard to do what I do but if you are a starter and you are surrounded by finishers and you then start listening to them…

Then you and your dreams are DOOMED!

Literally doomed!

This is the thing…

Finishers are the technicians…

The teachers…

They keep things ticking along…

And they need guidance…

They want to be told what to do…

Where to be…

They don’t really want to take full responsibility for anything…

They are the ones who look for someone else to blame and they cover their backs…

As long as you, the starter, are aware of these traits then all is well!

The problem is when you try to make them be like you…

Or when they try to make you be like them!

Now, bear in mind, they are not ‘norms’!

It is not that they are too passive to move – Oh no!

When they find a starter they align with, they are pretty darned committed to making stuff happen, they do not want to live passively but it is in their nature to seek out safety and order and certainty!

And you as the starter, you thrive on chaos, uncertainty, the spotlight, all of that!

And you need finishers or else, nothing much happens in the background…

It will be all shine and pizzazz and no substance!

You have to know this about yourself and your finishers!

And when it comes to the finishers, you have to be able to give them that sense of safety, order, certainty about where you are headed, if you want their awesome skills on your side.

And if you can’t do it yet, because your business is still in its beginnings, don’t expect their full support – That is just setting yourself up for a fall!

They do not have it in them to give you what you need!

You may be better off with a ‘norm’ to start with and progress to the more expensive finishers who show a whole lot more initiative than a ‘norm’.

And if you expect too much from a finisher,  all you feel is hurt and dissappointment.  They do not completely understand you – They try but they just don’t get it!

And if you are in a relationship with them, you may just find yourself disliking and resenting and potentially hating them.

My advice – If you want to keep the relationship going, have lots of sex, draw boundary lines around your dream, do not expect them to understand what you are talking about or even sympathise with you when things are not going your way, try not to let resentment fester.

Respect each other’s differences and KEEP MOVING FORWARD!

You are the one with the dreams, okay?

So, don’t try to get anyone else taking them on like you have to…

Like you don’t even feel you have a choice but to do…

If you are going to live the life you dream of, then you are going to have to believe in yourself, even if no one else believes in you!

Word to the wise – Find a mastermind of starters! or work with a coach used to working with starters who will not stifle you or your energy.  If anything, they will demand more from you than you even thought possible!

For your whole life, the chances are you are been told you are too much, to want less, to BE less and you thought you had to listen in…

Hopefully, you see that you are a starter and you are one of a very few that understand what it is like to be you!

So, no, not many get you and that is okay.

Be you, anyway!

Find some starters to share your vision with…

Find a finisher or more to complete the picture…

Fight for, deliberately design the life you are born to live…

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