Perfection Not Required – You Are Still Loved!

I woke up this morning and realised that I had forgotten again to pay for my daughter’s swimming lessons and she may now have lost her place.

She will not be too happy, if I am not able to sort it out… (Thankfully, I did sort it out!)

And for a moment there, I went to beat myself over the head for my inability to keep these mummy things under control…

But then I remember, perfection is not required…

I don’t need to get everything right to be loved…

Yep, there are consequences for my mistakes but you know what?!  I can handle all of those IF I do not make it some kind of emotional attack on my personhood…

Do you do that?

Make a mistake and then make yourself into a pariah in your own mind…

Do you keep beating yourself up and keep trying to be perfect in everything?

Now, don’t get me wrong, I don’t think that we just sit on our awesome arses feeling loved and telling ourselves that we don’t have to do anything – MAN, that would be boring!

Nope, that is not what I mean…

But the whole beating yourself up thing when you have not quite hit your self-imposed mark, is unnecessary…

It eats up energy that could be used to try again…

It eats up time that could be used to think of a next step…

It diminishes you as a person and makes you continually affirm to yourself that you are forever below the mark…

And what mark is that?!

Who set it?

And really, do you want to live to it?

Honey, perfection is not required…

Whatever mistakes you have made are done and gone so for freak’s sake, move forward anyway…

You can handle the consequences without all the emotional tension and anxiety…

You can figure out what to do next…

Now, focus on the vision…

For me, it is always “Best Wife, Best Mum, Best Coach”

And regardless of the mistaks made, I just keep moving forward, correcting as I go…

My eyes on the big goal, I refuse to be deterrred…

I will drop everything else to reach my vision…

I will never back down…

Yes, mistakes are made but so the heck what?

I am human and I am loved, regardless

And I love me, regardless…

Honey, it is your time to win.

Drop the self-flagellation…

Get back in the fray…

Take the next step…

You are worthy of every good thing…

REGARDLESS of mistakes made.

Fight for, deliberately design the life you are born to live

Because you want to

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