The Pain Cannot Be Allowed To Define You Anymore

Behind the smiles, behind the confident facade, behind the sunny disposition is you…

The you that is barely holding on and yet, you keep going…

You keep stirring yourself up

You keep choosing the higher path

But there are days when it feels tough

It feels like you are going to sink and fall into a pit out of which you will never be able to recover

But you keep fighting the edge of darkness

You can just see it out the corner of your eyes, seeking to take you over

And you have fought and fought it

And you have kept going

Seeking solutions here and there where no one knows you (You don’t want anyone to see or even suspect weakness in you)

Because you are supposed to be the strong one

The one with no needs

The one that is resilient and able to withstand incredible pressure

And you are that one…

For sure, you are that one.

And yet, it is getting tougher and tougher to keep holding everything up

I see you, honey.

I see your strength

I see your power

I see your incredible resilience

And I also see that you are identifying too much as a conquering warrior

You are identifying too much as someone who always has to struggle and fight and push through

And I know that you would say that life is that way

That you have to fight for every little thing…

And I certainly do not want to diminish what you have been through because I know it has been a lot and it has been ongoing for so long now.  It always seemed to be one thing or the other.

I simply ask you to change your identity.

No longer be a conquering warrior

Become someone who experiences ease – You see the easier way and you take it

Become someone who allows life to be joyful – You look for things to be joyful about

Become someone comfortable and expectant of good things – Again, look for the good things in your life and express gratitude from deep within, for them.

The pain has made you someone who always expects things to be hard for you.

The pain has made you feel unworthy of an easy good life

The pain has been allowed to identify you.

And you are not your pain

You are not your negative emotions

You are not your struggle

Learn to separate yourself from that

Pick out those victim-y thoughts that keep you looking for the next fight, the next thing you have to overcome

Choose to change them

Million times a day, if you have to

Be honest, you do not really expect to ever feel really good all the time, do you?

And you think that that is a normal way to look at the world.

And I know you are prepared to keep on fighting

I know you will never give up

But perhaps, life does not have to be a battle ground all the time?

Perhaps you can be happy now, really truly happy now even as you continue to go from glory to glory

I do not propose a passive existence

I simply ask you to wipe the slate clean

to stop living from experience

And instead to choose that from this moment forward, prosperity in all areas (including deep happiness) is your birthright

And you are going to be identified with that, instead of pain and struggle.

Come, come listen to the Simple 7 Day Prosperity Miracle Experiment…

Come let me support you in changing the underlying foundation on which you have built life

It is time to take the big leap to a place where you are allowed to feel good ALL THE TIME

It takes deliberate action

But you can do it, you are more than powerful enough

And as you do that, life will open up to more good than you could ever imagine

Join me now –

Learn simple ways to rewrite your foundation and open your mind and heart and EVERYTHING to more prosperity.

Much Amazing Love

Roesmary Nonny Knight


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