How To Handle Obstacles On The Path To The ‘Because I Want To’ Lifestyle – One of Significance and Luxury

Yesterday, I had a bit of a scare and ended up back in hospital for a few hours…

And it made me think of you, the leader, making a new decision about who you choose to be, what you choose to do, what you choose to have…

When you choose to step into the mandate, the calling on your life, you will experience scares…

Just to give you some background in case you have not been following my more recent story – I chose to have bigger boobs and a flatter tummy as I got fed up of carrying around my mummy tummy and simply because I wanted to.  I took myself off to Turkey to get this done and so far, so good because I am LOVING the results!

However, yesterday, I had a scare and this morning, in my ‘connect with Spirit’ time, I saw the parallels…

A few weeks ago, I made a decision for #OperationBiggerBoobsSmallerWaist

Maybe, you have made a decision to step into the work that you feel called to do…

I took myself off to Turkey to get the work done because I felt the only difference between here and there was the price and lack of English and so, I decided I was fine with the odds…

Needless to say, this is not a decision that some will like…

They will see me as cavalier with my health…

And maybe they are right, maybe they are wrong…

Ultimately, it is MY CHOICE so therefore they are WRONG!

When you decide that you are going to leave your current station, whatever that is and become the person you want to be, the leader called to impact millions and make millions…

Some will think you are stupid…

Some will think you are selfish…

Some will try to keep you in your place…

And in your case, THEY ARE WRONG, as well!

And then as I continued the process of healing, I had a wound that was bleeding a little and so I took myself off the my local surgery, offering to pay for my care but hey, I live in a country where healthcare is free (and I always have two minds about that, having been a pharmacist and seen just how much waste happens when people do not pay for their care!)…

However, I was grateful that I could just walk in and get the help.  They took a look at it, got nervous, because I mentioned that I had gone off to Turkey to get it done…

Remember you are always dealing with other people’s judgements and perceptions when you start to tell them your plans of what you are making happen…

And so, they sent me off to Accident and Emergency…

At this point, I start to second-guess myself – Did I make a wrong choice?  Was I too cavalier?  Maybe this is punishment for thinking that I could just choose to be whatever I wanted to be? Maybe, maybe, maybe…

And you will go through all that in your head too as you wait for the fruition of what you have decided you want in your life…

People with their opinions, which they are willing to share like candy, will try to make you doubt yourself and sometimes, it is not intentional – They mean well but they hurt your confidence if you let them…

Thankfully, I have developed fairly bullet-proof confidence in myself and my relationship with Spirit to know that whenever there is doubt, something is wrong…

So, as much as I took myself off to Hospital, there was a part of me that knew the initial decision was absolutely right and fine for me but this current part of the path was just an obstacle in the journey to what I wanted…

I considered worst case – If I was infected like they seemed to suggest then at worst, I would return to Turkey immediately (it is just money and a flight after all!) and get the implant removed temporarily until the infection cleared and then I would have it put back in – Annoying detour on the path but absolutely do-able…

For you…  Whatever weird detour happens on your narrow path, do not allow that to cause you to doubt your decision, your mandate, your calling – there will always be some test, some nonsense on the path and that does not mean that the calling on your life was wrong!

Just consider worst case scenario, realise you are able to handle it and KEEP MOVING FORWARD!

So, I get to A & E, I check myself in, wait around for a bit to be seen…

I get seen by a doctor who is fairly helpful as he checks the wound, takes my blood to make sure there is no infection but then, as is usually the case with the lovely NHS, I end up waiting about 2-3 hours because he feels I must be seen by the surgical team who are not available for HOURS!

And so I am sitting and sitting there and again, I am reminded about how when people are uncertain about the way you have done things, they do slightly overreact to prove that you made the wrong choice…

And I suppose if I was anyone but me, I would have sat there all worried about it, maybe feeling guilty as well…

But I am me and tend to keep my head when people are telling me what I SHOULD think about my health or that of my family – I accept nothing without question and I made the decision finally to discharge myself after getting some antibiotics and getting the wound redressed…

I was also in talks with my Turkish Surgeon and he confirmed my suspicion that there really was nothing wrong, I had maybe knocked the wound, either with my princesses trying to hug me too ferociously or by me attempting to sleep on my still healing side…

So, I knew that they were overcompensating because it was an unknown…

I had done something that they would tell most people not to do…

I had done it against what they would wish and now, there was a slight element of punishment in the air…

And I was not having that!

No one, NO ONE gets to make me feel guilty or in fear of punishment for making my own decisions about my body or my life…

If they are more knowledgeable than I am, then yes, I will listen into their opinion but ultimately, I have to take full responsibility for the choice I make in any area of my life.

So do you, leader!

And not many want that responsibility and so they allow others to determine for them what they do…

They give up their freedom so that they can be baby-ed through life, making no decisions of their own…

You cannot be one of those people…

You are called to impact millions, to make millions…

YOu can choose to live a life of luxury and significance…

Not many will heed the call because there will be many, many, MANY that want you to feel guilty for thinking that you can leave your current station in life and start to do whatever you choose to do…

They will think you are being irresponsible…

They will think you are selfish…

And you may be tempted to believe them and therefore keep playing the small game…

Leader, you are different from most…

YOU CANNOT AFFORD TO LISTEN TO NORMS TELLING YOU HOW TO CREATE A SIGNIFICANT, WEALTHY LIFE!

They do not know how to do it!

And yes, on the path to what you want, to fulfilling your call, there will be setbacks and some will try to make you feel like it is because you should not be on the narrow path at all…

Smile, then discharge yourself from their advice and KEEP MOVING FORWARD!

Your success is inevitable if you will stay on path and do the work you are born to do…

Yes, I am still healing and there may be any number of things I have to handle on the path to what I have chosen for my body but this is what I KNOW, the initial decision was not wrong…

Yes, you are still on the path to the life you feel called to live and there will yet be many distractions/obstacles on the path to getting there but KNOW this, the initial decision to step up into your calling WAS NOT WRONG!

Do not allow the regular setbacks of life to deter you from getting what you want.

And honey, stop trying to do it all alone…

Stop listening to norms but then put yourself in a place where you are surrounded by leaders who are on their own narrow path…

Leaders who get it…

They have faced or are facing their own obstacles/distractions and they are staying on path…

You want those people around you…

I have created a space for people like us…

The Deliberate Millionaire Fast Track group.

Join us now at RosemaryNonnyKnight.com/dmfasttrack

Leader, fight for, deliberately design the life you are born to live…

Because you want to!

 

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