How honest can I be with you?
Well, here goes…
I have not felt like making love to my husband this week, which is quite unusual for me…
And my excuse would be that I have felt tired…
And I suppose I could leave it at that, if I was a regular person…
But I am not.
I am RNK, the Deliberate Life Designer
And so, I know that I want a healthy, vibrant, exciting sex life…
It supports my creativity…
It keeps things sweet between the love of my life (tloml) and myself
And frankly, I just really enjoy it… once I get going!
However, I have allowed myself to have too many late nights and early mornings…
I have filled my days a little too much as I try to be super mum again
And I KNOW that my body has been telling me to rest a bit more this week as it tries to heal itself from the symptoms of hayfever, but I have not been listening all that much.
And so, come bedtime, all I want to do is go to sleep.
So… who is passively designing life now?
Yep, I could blame the fact that I am a mum, entrepreneur and busy but I CHOOSE that…
I am the one pulling my own strings…
There is no one but me who gets to decide how I map out my days
Yep, some may be upset with me if I don’t do things that they want me to do
But I get to choose who and what I respond to.
And this week, I have not been deliberate about ensuring I create space for orgasms and sexy time with hubby.
I now deliberately take back the reins of that area of my life.
WHY DO I SHARE WITH YOU?
Because you may be in that situation coming up with reasons why you are not available to make love to your partner and expecting them to understand even though you are deliberately creating a situation where you are tired.
Because we, human beings, have a tendency to feel sorry for the predicaments we create in our own awesome life.
Maybe, your thing is not the sex thing but there may be another area of your life where you are dropping the ball and at the same time, feeling sorry for yourself as though you are not the one creating the situation.
The normal way is to blame the Divine
Or The children
Or The boss
Or The Parents
Or The siblings, friends, neighbour’s dog
or maybe even the politicians, the bankers and the big corporations…
However, we are not normal people
NO ONE IS PULLING THE STRINGS OF OUR LIFE
We get to decide what our life looks like
We get to deliberately design what we consider important into our life or get rid of what we do not…
It is NEVER anyone else’s fault how we respond to life.
We are not victims.
So, honey, I share because it is time to take back responsibility for THAT situation in your life, whatever it is…
Get healing, if you need to
Buy the course to learn more about it, if you need to
Have the conversation, if you need to
DO THE WORK, if you need to
Stop telling yourself a story about how something is happening to you and you cannot change it.
It is a lie.
You are more powerful than that.
Deliberately design your life
And keep going until your life conforms to the standard you have set for it.
And watch how all the universe conspires to support you in creating a prosperous, fulfilling life
And by the way, if you are feeling stuck or bound up in any area of life, go download a free copy of my book, the FREEDOM book at RosemaryNonnyKnight.com/freedombook
Much Amazing Love
Rosemary Nonny Knight
The Prosperity Minister