I used to think I was proud and horrible for wanting to follow my heart. The training I received at church at the time, seemed to always suggest that I had to lay down my gifts and talents and all the stuff I actually wanted to do, in order to figure out what God wanted me to do and to follow his will.
Never did it occur to me that I had been gifted in a particular way for a reason.
And that reason was to use it!
Use all my strengths, my gifts, my talents to create a life I adored , rather than continually try to force myself into a career, a business, a life that did not suit me.
And I watch other people make exactly the same mistake as they strive for so called humility. They try to make themselves smaller and smaller because they think that that makes God bigger and bigger, they think that God needs them to be small in order for Him to be big.
What absolute nonsense!
He is what he is, regardless of what you do!
And you are what you are, why deny it?
No wonder life feels so tough when you keep denying who you are to appease a God who is already FOR you and who made you the way you are so that you could enjoy yourself!
You were not created to suffer! So Why do you persist in thinking that you were?!
You talk about God being love but then you ascribe to him a character of hate…
You make Him seem like someone who tries hard to suck all the joy out of your life and you have conditioned yourself not to question this because you think He will be angry with you and send you straight to hell for not having faith.
Again, HOW NONSENSICAL!
You are created to live an abundant life!
And what could be more abundant than living a life that uses all your gifts, strengths, abilities?
A life that feels like fun because you are doing you without all the falseness and the attempts to be whatever some person thinks you should be…
A life where you get to make the rules up as you go along…
A life where you get to live ever more expansively!
A life where you get to trust that everything is working in your favour…
A life where you get to allow yourself to experience all of life, to travel and see more of this planet, to make money doing only things you absolutely adore doing, to surround yourself with people you love and build solid relationships that inspire and empower you, to live so fully that others want to understand why you seem to be so happy all the time…
I mean, what better way to change the world, than to start firstly with you!
I watch people of many faiths, trying to convince others that their way is the only way but I can’t help but think that it is your life that will determine if people believe you or not.
Why on earth would anyone want to follow you if you seem so limited, so bound by rules and so hateful at times in the way you try to make everyone else follow your rules?
The only way to convince them will be through fear and honey, I thought you mentioned that God is LOVE!
So, why on earth would you so willingly choose to use fear to get people to believe in this god of yours?!
Needless to say, that is going to be one tough sell.
I am not even sure how convinced you are about it!
Listen, let the joy back into your life by allowing yourself to be fully you…
Start to believe truly that the universe, God is absolutely FOR YOU!
And you were not given gifts and desires and longings just to punish you when you have to lay them down…
NO, honey, they were given to you to USE THEM!
USE them to live a full, abundant life! To live a good life!
To have fun and adventure.
It is only in self-acceptance – the good, the bad – that you will find inner peace.
And I know, at the moment, you feel you have to deny yourself in order to find peace and I know that you have been taught that from birth so it is hard to shake the thought and yet, you have tried that already and how peaceful do you feel?
Be honest with yourself!
Because, honey, I did this thing you try to do and I made myself feel guilty for being who I really was and maybe, it will make you feel holy but I can tell you right now, that you are doing it just to appear holy to other people, not GOD!
Because He does not demand this fake holiness from you!
Only other people do.
And the moment you realise that deep down in your heart, you will start to experience freedom like never before. NO, the journey to that freedom will not always feel that great because you will wonder if you have gone off the rails!
But then as you stay on the path, there will be more of a certainty that you are on the right track for you!
You will stop allowing other people think for you…
You will tap into the inner wisdom that every single one of us carries…
And you will get to use your gifts, your talents, your God-given strengths to make a life you actually adore and it will be more fun than this current, very limited, people pleasing existence.
Honey, you do not need to be an apprentice at being you!
Just be you!
You do not have to build any one else’s dream…
Start now to build yours!
Another year ends – Surely, it is time for you to start being fully YOU!
Everything awaits you waking up!
You do have a part to play…
You are a unique jigsaw piece on this planet and you have to be you, in order to complete the picture…
It is time to fight for, to create the life and the business you want and the one you are designed to create!
Because you can!
Nothing stops you, but you!
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