No, Life is not ‘fair’ – Here’s How You Win Anyway

Life is not fair

You may have grand ideas about the way life ‘should’ be and so you probably get your knickers in a twist when things do not work out the way you want them to work.

That’s a pity because there is something awesome and amazing that you could have added to the world if you had just got over yourself and played the game of life by the rules it ACTUALLY works by, rather than the rules you have concocted in your head about what SHOULD work and what SHOULD NOT!

I do think you are pretty important in the grand scheme of things…

I do think that you have value…

I do ABSOLUTELY THINK you could be rich beyond your wildest dreams and also doing only work you love and absolutely killing at it…

BUT…

And this is a big but…

You just refuse to play the game…

And so, you get what you get…

In fact, you already have exactly what you have allowed yourself to get because you refuse to study the reality of life and just get on with playing the game and stop taking yourself so seriously and your ancient (never ever worked) version of ‘fairness’.

Open your eyes and look…

1. No one cares how good you think you are being

No, that does not mean you need to go evil bigstyle or anything!

However, please understand that you may be the most moral, ethical person on the planet…

You may choose to deny yourself all the good things of life because you think that somehow makes you more ‘good’ than everyone else…

You may choose to work the hardest at a job you hate FOREVER…

And you will still be broke…

Because the marketplace, the world does not care how good you think you are being…

It only cares how many real people you actually impact (in a way that means something to them!)

So, you can keep working for gold stars from a boss, or a marketplace that is not watching and keeping score or you can see the world as it really is and learn how to promote the work that you do and get people to allow you to impact them so that you can actually then build a life and a business that you want.

No one makes money until someone gets SERVED in a way that means something to THEM, not to you!

Understand that and win…

Or Don’t Understand it and Spend your life feeling resentful that life is not fair…

2. Your version of fairness is not necessarily anyone else’s

You may think that you are the authority on what is ‘fair’ but actually, so does everyone else!

And their version of ‘fair’ may be significantly different from yours.

So who wins?

The person who impacts the most people!

It always is that simple.

Though you do not realise it, you assume that because you think something is ‘fair’, everyone else does as well but actually, everyone has a different version of what they consider to be ‘fair’

And it is all based on how each person was brought up – There is no strict line for what is right and what is not.

There are made-up rules about everything in order to keep the peace but the longer you live, the more you realise that the lines move, the rules change and people start to see things differently.  Even YOU start to see things differently!

And I suppose you could hold on to what you consider to be ‘the right way to think’ but all it does is keep you resentful that everyone is not looking at things YOUR way.

And surely, you can see just how selfish that really is.

Which is not to say that you should not be most interested in yourself – Of course you should but you cannot impose your own ideas upon everyone else and expect not to get some backlash.

You have a right to your own ideas and so do others and the quicker you learn that that is the ONLY truth, the quicker you will learn how to do what it takes to get the results you want out of life.

I see you – Diligently doing work, doing business in the way you have confined yourself to doing it and then getting irritated that no one gives you the results you want…

No one will because you are not being wise.

You are waiting for someone to give you something, instead of doing whatever you can to go find it and take it.

Not in a horrid, ‘steal, kill, destroy’ kinda way but please open your eyes and see the way the world ACTUALLY works and figure out how it can work for you.

No one is keeping you in work you hate, except you and your outdated ideas of how to bring in an income…

No one is keeping you in a relationship you don’t like, except you and your ideas of what being a partner should look like…

Stop blaming the world, religion, the rich people, the government, the economy, your parents, ANYONE…

Start seeing life as it really is…

And start playing the game.

If you want to be wealthy in all areas of your life, get very specific about what you actually want, not what you think you are allowed…

Get very clear about the actions you have to take to impact the most people…

And then become a person who does those actions…

Become fearless in facing down all your old ideas about what is allowed and what is not…

And get to work doing the REAL work that will get you all you want.

Or stay there, wishing life was ‘fair’

Your choice, honey…

Your choice.

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