You may read a title like this and feel almost selfish for reading the post because it has been battered into your head that you cannot expect to always get what you want. The problem with that line of thinking is that it stops you doing the work to get whatever you want because you think you can’t.
The truth is, YOU CAN get whatever you want if you will do the work to get it so really, the only thing that gets between you and what you want is YOU!
Are you ready to get out of your own way?
1. Why Do You Want It?
This is the thing – I very literally believe you can have whatever you want as long as you are willing to do the work to get it. However, I also know that you will only stick with doing the work to get something when you know ‘WHY’ you want it. It can be tough to go after your dreams and so the only thing that will keep you on path is your big reason why. What is it?
For me, when I started in business, it was simply that I wanted to stay home with my girls and earn an income as well. That was my driving force – What of you? What will make you go solidly after what you want even when it feels tough?
2. Rock Solid Self-Discipline
Another thing that gets in the way of people reaching their goals is a lack of self-control – NO Discipline. Everyone wants the easy thing and so they get that but anything that demands a little more effort stops most people in their tracks. And then, they give all kinds of other reasons for not succeeding! If you want it, you have to do the work to get it. Will you?
3. Who are you surrounded by?
If you have people in your life who enjoy telling you why your expectations are unrealistic, it may be time for a change of relationships. This is the thing, once you start to actively go after your goals, it will be threatening to some of the people you have always known. They get to choose whether to encourage you and step themselves up or belittle you and wait for you to realise that you are dreaming.
You do not need that second kind of energy around you on a regular basis. Figure out how to surround yourself with more encouraging folks (The Deliberate Millionaire can help with that – RosemaryNonnyKnight.com/dmlifetime)
4. Write it out daily
GEt into the habit of writing out your goals and your reason why, daily. This will help keep it top of mind. For too long, you have lived passively, just going with the flow and now you are getting deliberate about creating a life you love. It will feel tough to break free of your old way of doing things so you have to exaggerate everything. Read out those goals daily to over shadow any desire to retreat to your old life. Read them daily to also help ensure that every action you take is taking you in the direction of your goals. You will start to feel strange when you dilly dally time away because in your head, you will start to think “I could be doing something towards my goals”
5. What Is Going On In Your Head?
You do need to mind your thoughts. Another reason to write out and read out those goals daily. If your dominant way of thinking and being is negative, it will prove tough to stay on track because you will think it is inevitable that you will fail. It is not. Mind your thoughts!
6. How Can you Serve?
It is unlikely that you will get what you want without helping other people in some way to get what they want. In fact, the more people you help, the more likely you are to hit your monetary goals. So, get yourself out into that marketplace and start helping as many people. No more hiding – GET OUT THERE!
And if you are an already successful person in one realm of life, who, deep down, has a big dream to do something powerful in business, so you can live a purpose driven life and enjoy the freedom, lifestyle and money you want, without having to conform, capitulate or continue to stay in a trapped and boring life, as someone you’re not, then join my Deliberate Millionaire Fast Track Business Mastermind and go from being frustrated and stuck in life to attracting customers, clients, recruits into your business, living out your purpose and making money doing what you love without having to work every single moment of every single day.
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