How Confident Are You About Your Ability To Win?

Are you bought into yourself?

Do you really believe you have what it takes to get what you want out of your life and business?

Do you really think it is possible to live a life full of activities you adore, rather than just doing what HAS TO BE DONE to survive?

Do you really think that you can thrive, make a difference to a ton of people and make a whole lot of money along the way?

If your answer to any of these questions is ‘NO’, then maybe, just maybe, you are the HUGE obstacle in your own path!

Because, honey, without this basic level of belief in yourself you will not give yourself permission to stand out, to shine, to do all the things you dream of because deep inside there will be doubt holding you back, whispering little nothings about playing small so you do not fall flat on your face…

You will simply find yourself unable to do the work!

And you may not even realise that you are not doing the work!

You may feel busy, oh so busy…

But busy work is not the same as productive work.

And so, though you may feel hard done by because you are not quite getting the results you want, it is mostly because you are not doing the work that is required to get those results.

I did this for years!

AEONS!

I kept getting in my own way.  Because deep down inside, I did not really believe I was able to build a big business, I seemed to do whatever I could to prove myself right!  We humans, can be pretty crazy at times!

  • I would spend lots of time looking for guidance from the heavens about whether it was really my time yet – I would call it praying or waiting on God but then I would come away from that quiet time, none the wiser and I would therefore assume that it was not my time yet and carry on with my mundane boring life.
  • I would spend all my energy at a job that I did not much like and then give half my brain to creating work I did like, give into fear about it all and retreat claiming that I had tried and nothing was working…
  • I would get stuck in marketing activities that I saw some person doing and think that that must be the magic bullet answer and so I would flit from one activity to the next, no thought, no focus, NOTHING – I would then work hard getting nowhere but because I was already kinda convinced I was not going to get anywhere, it just seemed to be a physical evidence of what I had internally decided was true.

How did I break free from this?

It is an ongoing journey but firstly, I got clear…

Ask yourself – What do I want?  If money was no object (and after I had spent a good 3 months on a beach somewhere relaxing and doing nothing) what would I like my life to look like?  What have I had a vision about for the longest time but felt I could not do yet?  What legacy do I want to leave behind for my children?

Make a fearless list of answers to these questions.  At this stage, you are just trying to get clear about things – WHAT DO YOU REALLY WANT?

And if you have not asked this in a while, you may find it hard to answer this question.  That is okay – What is your answer for today.  It is not set in stone.  As human beings, we are always expanding so do not worry about getting it perfectly right.  Even if you did, you could be a slightly more expanded person tomorrow and so have a different idea of what is awesome.

Next, take that big picture vision, pretend you are already that person doing all that stuff and ask yourself, ‘How did I get from 25th April, 2016 to being this person who has this incredibly awesome life?”

Write down all the activities that seem to come up.

Maybe you got a mentor to work with…

Maybe you used Facebook to build yourself a platform and get people listening to you…

Maybe you found a product that you loved and sold it on behalf of some other business owner…

Maybe, you made a commitment to yourself to go on holiday every 3 months to recharge your batteries and creativity…

Maybe, you wrote that book…

Maybe you started that ‘not-for-profit’ and found funding by actively looking for and applying for grants, loans etc

Maybe, maybe, maybe…

With the knowledge you have today, piece together an action plan.

And then…

Wait for it!

TAKE THE FIRST STEP!

Make this clarity-seeking a daily ritual – Not something you do once a year.

We have all been trained to just go with the flow even if the flow does not suit us…

We were given a generic education at school and that dulled our sense of who we wanted to be when we grew up…

We get out of the habit of demanding from the world what we want because we are trained to think that we are subject to the whims of fate…

But you no longer have to live this way.

You can build back a child-like confidence that whatever you want, you can create!

Remember way back when…

When you thought that you could fly…

When you thought that just because you wanted something, you had a right to have it…

You did not know yet that most adults lived a life of quiet desperation and resignation…

You looked almost with contempt at people older than you who seemed to hate what they were doing and you promised yourself that that would not be your lot…

And then life events chipped away at your confidence…

You got solidly stuck in the mud…

Unable to move away from what increasingly felt like a pre-designed, depressing order of things…

You found yourself, slowly but surely, becoming one of those people you despised…

And you made excuses for it, saying that this is just part of growing up and leaving childish dreams behind…

And yes, honey, we do need to leave childish dreams of just having what we want drop into our lap behind but that does not mean that you cannot maintain a childlike faith that as you take steady steps in the direction of the vision you have for your life, that it will inevitably happen…

Because it will.

It will not force itself on you…

The only condition of a life you adore is that you find the confidence to believe it is possible and you take steps towards making it happen each and every single day!

But as long as you do that, then you will INEVITABLY GET IT!

You are created to succeed at whatever you put your hand to and so, honey, it is just your lack of confidence that will halt you.

To end, you need to work on your brain, your mindset.

Living a passive version of your life has caused you to get a demeaning and confidence destroying way of looking at the world but thankfully, your barin is pretty malleable.

Now that you see that your way of thinking is not helping you, you can actively reshape, redesign the way your mind works and instead of looking for things to doubt and fear, you can look for reasons to have faith in yoru abilities and the desire of the universe for you to live a FULL, PROSPEROUS life.

As you daily write out your goals and get clear, also deliberately write out ways of thinking that you are now going to take on…

Write out affirmations that you are going to repeat to yourself until you believe them.

And why?  Because, right now, you are believing affirmations that you took on as truth when really they were only one way of looking at life.  In order to create a new life and make yourself see opportunities, you need to change what you believe.

So, write out new beliefs that you are choosing to take on and this time, more deliberately feed them to yoruself by DLIBERATELY repeating them to yourself until it becomes your reality…

And it will happen.

You just have to get past the resistance about it.

OK, now it is time to implement.

  1. Get clear on what you want

  2. Get clear on the actions you could take to get there

  3. Take the first step

  4. Retrain your brain

Simple!

It is time to begin!

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