FIGHT OR FLIGHT? SURELY THERE IS ANOTHER OPTION FOR POWERFUL RELATIONSHIPS

Once upon a time, I thought the only 2 answers to every conflict was to fight back or to run for the hills…

Yell, scream, argue to the death…

Or run in the other direction, put on my pious hat but be emotionally unavailable, shut down with a smile on my face…

It all felt so painful

And it would consume my every thought

Which meant, of course, that I could not be creative

Or not as creative as I wanted to be

I felt stagnant

Blocked

And I did not like it because I am someone with big ideas of the life I choose to deliberately design…

I certainly did not want my big ideas to become subject to these relational incidences that seemed to knock me off course

So now, I come back to LOVE

And I do mean, LOVE with capital letters – My Papa, my constant supporter and lover

I picture myself on His lap

I feel His love flowing through me

I begin again to see that I do not NEED anyone else to love me

I do not NEED to be so attached to everything going my way

I do not NEED to have so many expectations from any one person

All this helps me to think more clearly

To see my emotions more clearly without completely engaging in them

That is step one

STEP TWO is a little more tricky

Seeing unhelpful emotions and thoughts is one thing

Choosing to let them go, is another thing

I want my day in court!

I want someone to say sorry!

I may even want someone to feel sorry for all I have been through!

And so, yes, I may see that I do not need all of this…

I still want it though!

And that takes some working out

And little by little I do the work of changing my mind because at the root of every unhelpful emotion is a thought that needs adjusting

Little by little, I release the tension

Little by little, I allow my flow to return

Until one day, after persistent inner work, I realise I am no longer trapped in the same destructive thought patterns

LOVE has won

Love always wins, if I am willing

And I am.

Come do life with me in the OPULENCE CIRCLE…

Come see what holds you back

Come learn the Deliberate Life Method and take the path to true lasting prosperity

Find out more at rosemaryNonnyKnight.com/opulencecircle

Much Amazing Love

 

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