Some days, I can be a human cannonball of reaction, wrecking havoc in all areas of my life.
I react to the way this unknown person looked at me.
I react to the rude email that other person that I do not know, sent me.
I react to the way my partner speaks to me.
I react and react and react.
And my life begins to go down into a spiral of despair and unhappiness as all I do, is react.
In those moments, I am being a lot less than a creator. I am being a reacting mass of weakness. I am being a victim and it solves nothing and gets me nowhere.
But, on some days, it takes me a long while to shake it off and wake up out of that crazy nonsense and so the day is wasted as I feel like everything is happening to me. I feel stupid, I think I cannot deal with things and I feel like the world is against me. I forget all about abundance, I forget all about the power of my choice, my money goes down and I start to think that I had better just go find myself a job. I think I am wasting time and wonder if anyone even wants to hear from me.
I get a little bit silly (actually, a LOT silly)
And all because I am reacting, instead of creating.
Do you ever feel a little like this or am I the only crazy person that gets this way?
The thing is, I do have a choice.
I know this and finally I remember. Thankfully, I remember sooner and sooner each time this happens. And you can, too. When you feel yourself retreating into victim mode, when you start to go down that spiral of despair as everything starts to feel like it is happening to you.
Take a moment, take a breath, take a step back.
Ask yourself “What do I want to create?”
Remind yourself who you choose to be – A loving partner, A loving parent, A successful and connected entrepreneur who changes life with your product, service, business opportunity. Remember that and ask yourself “How can I be who I choose to be in this moment?”
Then take that next action.
And start again to create, rather than react.
Reacting takes you further away from who you are.
Creating brings you closer.
Reacting brings depression and sadness and all the other emotions you would rather avoid.
Creating makes you powerful.
Reacting makes you helpless and hopeless.
Creating makes all the things you want, appear.
Creating is about freedom – Freedom to be whoever, whenever you want.
Creating is just a better way to live, a more wholesome expression of who you are and when you step into creator mode each day, you stop being affected by what others do because you are always creating your own reality.
No, it is not always easy and I have already told you how sometimes, I fail.
And yet, the failures do not define you or I.
We are still creators at heart.
Decide today to catch yourself slipping back into reactor mode and choose to change direction.
There will always be someone with something negative to say to you – Don’t react.
If you choose to be someone who serves, figure out how you can be who you CHOOSE to be in that moment. It matters not what they said or did, all that matters is who you choose to be.
Fight for, create the life, the business you want because you are free to do so.
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