You Have To Step Up And Be A Leader!

Be a leader

So, you want your business to succeed, right?

Then you have to LEAD IT, YOURSELF and YOUR PEEPS to success…

Everything rises and falls on leadership and sometimes, leadership is not the popular choice…

People will not like you choosing to take responsibility for your financial health and asking them to pay you for something you used to give away for free…

People will not like you choosing to step up and make the hard decisions which will ultimately lead to better results for everyone…

They will feel threatened the moment you stop allowing excuses to rule your life and you start taking action to grow your business…

They are used to the flexible and ‘nice’ you, the one that lets people get away with anything because you thought you had to do that to keep them happy.

Have you ever noticed that the ones you give more of your attention and time for free to, are the very ones that choose to stab you in the back or they are the ones who do nothing with all that time and attention?

It becomes something they take for granted and they do not value you and what you offer…

And honey, it is not their fault…

It is because you have trained them to treat you that way and now…

NOW, you have to step up as leader and choose a different path and it will not be fun at the beginning…

Until you realise that everyone is better off when you are clear about what you want!

In time, you will feel more comfortable with it…

I used to do this weak follower thing and I even thought I was helping people…

And I have just had two conversations where I had to call them out and say, it is time to be leader!

When I was more hands on with my properties (And that in itself is a problem – Too much being in the business does not help you with growing the business), I would listen to every sob story going and I would then attempt to help them change things and I would end up doing more for their life than they were willing to do for themselves.

And honey, you cannot own someone’s dream or even problem more than they do themselves – It just does not work.

And so, I would help these lovely tenants to fill in forms, to get jobs, take them places and I would be lenient about their rent because there was always a story to be told, of course…

And then, these very same people would be the first to jump ship and leave without even a word of thank you, leaving huge debts behind them…

Thankfully, I did not do it for the gratitude but still it would have been helpful to see them benefitting from all my hard work on their behalf…

And as I mentioned, I spoke to two people today who also had tried far too hard to come alongside people who were not committed to their own dreams – It almost always ends badly and you must learn to discern the different types of people.

To be a leader, you must have boundaries in place…

And because you have lived as a norm for too long, you may not realise that you spend a lot of your time being manipulated by people who mean well but ultimately do not have your best interests at heart.  And so, you need boundaries and you need to start asking for what you want.

Of course, people can say no…

But you have to tell them how things will be from now on in your business and in your life.

Where are you not being a leader?

Where are you allowing other people’s agendas get in the way of creating the life and the business you want to create?

It is time to fight for, to create the life and the business you want.

And if you are ready to make 2016 your best year yet, then let’s have a conversation – a complementary consultation where I help you clarify your goals for next year, identify what may be stopping you from reaching them and put a plan in place to make it happen.  There will also be the option of working with me on an ongoing basis to get accelerated results.

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