7 Toxic Behaviours That People Who KNOW they are Loved would never Indulge

Being loved is your right.

FEELING loved is your choice.

Sometimes, people wait for some special person to come along and save the day and tell them how loved they are and then they latch all their hopes and dreams onto this person, not realising that that is too much pressure for any one person to handle and usually, if you hold too tight, you lose what you were trying to keep.

(Unless you are in partnership with another needy soul and you both drain each other in equal measure – At some point, one of the parties will realise just how unhealthy this relationship is!)

The DELIBERATE LIFE is about choosing to KNOW that actually, right now, in this moment you are surrounded and covered and kept by love.

That the universe, your angels, your higher power, God, Spirit, (I call Him Papa), whatever you want to call it, is ALREADY showering you with love and unfortunately, you have all these limiting beliefs and blocks that cause you to think you are alone.

YOU ARE NOT ALONE and have never been.  You simply need to choose to open your heart to the love that is all around you.

Not easy to do when you have felt hurt and wounded by people and events…

And yes, sometimes, you need support

Truly, WE ALL NEED SUPPORT in this area but most people try to tell themselves that they are okay alone and so they stay stuck in nonsense for far longer than they need to be.

This is one of the reasons why I created the DELIBERATE SUCCESS IMMERSION INCUBATOR at such a cost effective investment because I KNOW what it is like to be caught up in a hostile world where you feel everything and everyone is against you, where you feel that every thing has to be fought tooth and nail for…

You cannot prosper that way.

You will hit a glass ceiling and never be able to get past it.

I did it

I KNOW!

And now I have created a space for anyone who will be wise enough to know that they need that extra something in order to choose to act from love, to come be a part of.  You can get on the phone with me once a week and I will help you clear the things in the way of you walking tall.  You will be in the incubator where daily, I am downloading messages from Source to get you in the love zone.  I KNOW you need to be immersed in something different (LOVE) because I had to be, in order to become this person you see here.

It is the only way to experience TRUE PROSPERITY.

Otherwise, I would still be a pharmacist, living to my limitations.

Clients I have worked with would still be hiding in their businesses, instead of opening new branches and showing up powerfully…

Hiding in jobs that did not satisfy them instead of writing and creating and increasing their income that way…

Stuck in past relationships that had broken down, stuck feeling hurt and used, instead of powerfully allowing themselves to heal and move forward.

Stuck in addictive behaviours instead of free to deliberately design lives they loved.

Stuck at a pay bracket less than what they deserve instead of boldly owning their worth and getting incredible pay raises.

LOVE makes the difference.

And here are behaviours that those who know they are loved would never indulge.

1.PEOPLE WHO KNOW THEY ARE LOVED WOULD NOT ALLOW DOUBT TO RULE THEIR DAY

People who feel loved from their core know that doubt is a killer of dreams.  They choose not to indulge it.  They know they are fully supported and loved and so they need no longer hold back, even if they think they might make a mistake.

2.PEOPLE WHO KNOW THEY ARE LOVED WOULD NOT ALLOW OTHER PEOPLE’S OPINIONS OR PLAN DETERMINE THEIR PATH

If you know that you are supported and cared for, would you really allow some person’s approval mean so much to you that you stifle your own desires and vision in order to keep them happy with you?

I don’t think so.

Would you try to keep up appearances?

I don’t think so.

Loved people pursue their own interests regardless of other people’s opinions or even their plans for them.

3.PEOPLE WHO KNOW THEY ARE LOVED WOULD NOT ALLOW RELIGIOUS DOGMA DETERMINE THEIR SPIRITUAL CONNECTION

For so long, I did not feel loved by my higher power, I felt judged so I used religious dogma, my family’s religious demands to determine for me what my relationship with Papa ‘SHOULD’ look like.  It was not real, it was duty.  I was trying to tick all the boxes so I did not go to hell for all eternity.

LOVE changed all that.

When I really knew how loved I was, I threw all the nonsense out and built a new foundation for true connection to Source.

Seeing that this is the most important connection you will ever have, I suggest you question what you are believing.

4. PEOPLE WHO KNOW THEY ARE LOVED WOULD NOT INDULGE THOUGHTS OF BEING ALONE

When you think you are alone, you procrastinate, you are too scared to make mistakes because it would only be you picking up the pieces, you do not allow yourself to live out the calling on your life because you just gotta get by.

When you know you are loved and fully supported, you are more daring, more able to take the dreams from within and bring them to life.

5. PEOPLE WHO KNOW THEY ARE LOVED WOULD NOT SEE VULNERABILITY AS WEAKNESS

People who live in a hostile world are their own worst enemy.  They build high towers around themselves, pretend to have it all together and therefore, prevent themselves from living life to the full.  They think everyone is out to get them and so they refuse to EVER let their guard down.  And so, no one can truly love them, because NO ONE EVER REALLY SEES their heart.  In the work that I do, I get so many people sending me private messages but never then take the next step because they are so scared of being vulnerable.

Their need to be super strong all the time, means they never allow themselves to experience healing and so their internal blocks stay until they choose to open the door to support.  Some even know they need support, come into places like the DSI and then clam up, lurk, and refuse to share what they are really going through and so, nothing changes.

If they are wise, they stick around until my persistence in showing up and loving them breaks down the walls. It could be easier and quicker but even Spirit will not force your hand (Rosemarynonnyknight.com/spirit-will-never-force-hand/)

6) PEOPLE WHO KNOW THEY ARE LOVED WOULD NOT PASSIVELY BLAME OTHERS FOR THEIR MISFORTUNE

When you know you are loved, it is not scary to take full responsibility for your life, even the horrid stuff.  You know that there is grace enough for you and so you need not try to blame something or someone else for where you are in life.  You will know that all you need to do is ask for support from your intuition and start afresh to create a new experience of life.

Loved people know they are not victims of circumstance.  They know there is always a way because love always makes a way.

The unloved think they need saving, think everything is against them, think that a mistake could take them out for good.  they are too scared to take full responsibility because deep down, they already feel unworthy and insufficient to the task and so it is easier to blame and pretend to have no choice but to remain stuck.  None of this is true.

The thing is, when I felt unloved and lived my life passively, I WAS A PHARMACIST so I was very capable and to the world, I even had it together but I blamed my upbringing for my inability to live the life I wanted to live and that gave me an out from ever trying.  So, no, this is not the territory of the weak.  I have never been weak and yet, I have been passive.

7) PEOPLE WHO KNOW THEY ARE LOVED WOULD NOT NEED TO PUT OTHERS DOWN OR SEE THEMSELVES AS SUPERIOR 

When you know you are loved, you give up judgement. You don’t need to anymore.  You are not in competition with anyone.  And you know you have your own flaws so why bother shining a light on the flaws of another.

You live a life of abundance where there is more than enough for everyone who is willing to do what it takes to step into it.

You are creator, not competitor.

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I could go on but enough for now.

I ask you to be honest, do you see yourself in any of these and are you willing to consider change?

Work with me starting now in the Deliberate Success Immersion Incubator and choose to immerse yourself in love. Find out more and join in now at RosemaryNonnyKnight.com/dsi

There is more that you are here to experience and create.

You know it.

The pains from the past hold you stuck in an experience of life that is so limited and it is time to break free into prosperity in all areas.

Join us in the incubator.

Lets speak to each other once a week live

Lets be in the incubator daily together as I immerse you in love

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No longer do you need to feel so alone trying to work life out and figure yourself and your path out.

No longer do you need to settle for an existence that looks good on the outside but feels bad on the inside of you.

YOU are born for more

Now is the day to claim it.

Join me in the Deliberate Success Immersion Incubator at RosemaryNonnyknight.com/deliberatesuccess

Much Amazing Love

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